my last relationship was very toxic and at times abusive / controlling so I'm not sure what's normal anymore?!
I've been separated from my husband for a year and half now and have been online dating.
I've met someone I really like - we have been texting for several months now. I've met him a few times and have already slept with him - I was so keen to overlay some of the bad experiences I had with my ex. The last few years the only sex I had was me saying no and him climbing on top of me anyway - then 3 thrusts later it would all be over. We didn't kiss or cuddle or any foreplay. It was literally that and I was grateful it was over so quickly, I used to turn my head and try not to acknowledge him. I didn't want to sleep with ny ex as he was just so mean to me - calling me fat and ugly and saying my stretch marks were awful( from carrying his baby!)
So the new guy the Sex was great and so nice to have someone say nice things about my body and generally be nice to me. He said my stretch marks are a badge of honour and such a privileged to carry my babies.
Just recently he's not texting first as often. If I was to text him he will always reply but if I didn't text for a few days he wouldn't either!
I keep thinking about him (new guy) and feel upset when he posts things on Facebook like he's going out but not texting me.
Am I being unreasonable to be upset? Should I just call it a day?