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Tradesman chasing for payment

699 replies

CharlesIsQueensHorcrux · 19/06/2022 11:24

Hi - I had a tradesman in last week, finished Friday & invoiced Friday night with email and message. Since then has messaged another five times chasing me! By the way I wasn’t ignoring him I messaged back saying I was out but would deal. Is it me or is he unreasonable to chase me all weekend for an invoice issued on Friday night? I was happy with the work but not sure now I would use him again as I feel a bit ick like there’s a suggestion I wouldn’t pay or something. Aibu?

OP posts:
Somethingneedstochange · 20/06/2022 19:18

He did the work your happy with it what's the issue? Just pay him. He's probably been denied payment in the past and just making sure he gets the money he's rightfully owe'd. My ex is a tradesman and he has been refused payment. He did a whole house once new skirting boards dado rails and new door casing and doors. Did a brilliant job as always but after 6 months of no payment he was pretty p*ed off. He still had a key for the house so took a chainsaw to the lot of it. The great thing about the internet is you don't even have to leave the house. So stop being so stubborn and childish and pay him.

AmJustDone · 20/06/2022 19:18

Ifailed · 19/06/2022 11:34

I suspect he's chasing you because someone is chasing him.

I suspect he's chasing her because she hasn't paid. Despite saying she will.

puffalo · 20/06/2022 19:19

Also no harm, but if you’re getting work done…

Oh I don’t know, be able to afford it? Be able to pay for it? Or don’t get it done in the first place?

Just a thought.

kirinm · 20/06/2022 19:25

My partner is a tradesman and doesn't expect to be paid immediately - although if it was a small job, I suppose he would. But we always try and pay tradesman fairly quickly.

The chasing over the weekend is weird though and I wouldn't be massively impressed with that.

Checkandcheckagain · 20/06/2022 19:30

I usually pay an invoice straight away. Only once l made him wait as he spent weeks completing a simple job.

Mollymoostoo · 20/06/2022 19:34

What does it says about the payment terms?
If it says payment due immediately then you need to pay straight away. I have had invoices with 48hrs to pay and others want immediate payment.

AnnieSnap · 20/06/2022 19:35

I don’t think you are being unreasonable, as long as you got back to him after (hopefully his first message) to advise when you would be paying within a few days. In the days when we paid cash or check, we paid immediately on completion, but now it’s mostly bank transfer, a few days can be normal in a busy life. Be aware though, you don’t know what is going on in his life. Lots of people are really struggling at the moment. I hope you have paid him by now.

tracylamont13 · 20/06/2022 19:35

As a tradesperson, we usually give payment terms of 7 days and don’t chase until then. It depends what his terms of payment are. But if you’re happy with the work then just pay. It’s sorted then.

AnnieSnap · 20/06/2022 19:36

Sorry, just realised that you had paid prior to posting your thread.

Daffi · 20/06/2022 19:38

Pay him ASAP he probably has a family to feed, if he messaged you 5 times I presume you didn't reply until the 5th message. And you have posted this, in that time you could have paid the bill.

WeAreBob · 20/06/2022 19:41

Daffi · 20/06/2022 19:38

Pay him ASAP he probably has a family to feed, if he messaged you 5 times I presume you didn't reply until the 5th message. And you have posted this, in that time you could have paid the bill.

Did you actually bother to read the OP's posts?

Summerwetordry · 20/06/2022 19:42

All the tradesmen we have used recently have emailed the invoice and expected a bank transfer same day.

WomenShouldWinWomensSports · 20/06/2022 19:59

Have you written the cheque yet OP Grin

Q2C4 · 20/06/2022 20:01

Galvanisa · 19/06/2022 11:33

Erm no, payment should be sent on receipt of invoice.

No wonder he is chasing you. You are clearly in the wrong

i always pay trades in cash on the day.

If paying in cash, I'd worry about how to get comfortable that the income is being fully declared. I prefer to leave an online paper trail myself as I'd hate to be financing tax evasion.

EntertainingandFactual · 20/06/2022 20:03

If I’m happy with the job I pay as soon as I get an invoice.

expat101 · 20/06/2022 20:03

We state in our terms of trade payment is due on completion of work. This means I send an invoice as soon as DH tells me the job is completed, or if the client doesn’t provide an email address, DH takes the invoice with him.

however unless you both bank with the same bank, and at least in the country where I live, banks do don’t do weekend transfers to each other. Anything transferred to another bank on the weekend is processed Monday morning. most of us understand this and generally clients will screen shot a copy of their payment transfer as proof.

all good.

having said that, tradespeople are not credit providers. You can’t walk out of a supermarket without paying for items, so neither should a tradesperson be subsidising building work for a client. We are currently doing bits for a real estate agent who we know is on the brink of being broke, yet is spending a massive sum on a new kitchen. I totally understand why kitchen installers have clients pay up front for the bulk of the work.

another little trick we have experienced is someone’s uncle’s bf’s father (you get the drift, a total random) tells them not to pay until he turns up to inspect the work. These types of people are rarely knowledgeable as to current day building rules, never turn up when the tradesperson is there, and frankly is a misleading pain in the arse. We have successfully taken one of these guys to court and won, after he refused our representative access to the job and then ripped it apart after he received the court notice.

generally speaking our clients have been awesome to deal with, and if people don’t like our terms of trade (we deal with relatively big sums of money) then they can get someone else too, but it cripples the cash flow if you get a couple of Folk who delay in paying…

in the meanwhile, please encourage your children to get into the building industry, the young ones are not coming through and guys like DH are going to retire without passing on their knowledge and skill.

RunningTiger · 20/06/2022 20:12

He didn’t build you a garden walk by chance? 😂
my recent builder was the same, had to pay him 50% mid job then the rest asap. He texted /emailed daily until I paid (we are talking day finished job +2 and that’s only because husband is overseas and I wasn’t sure final agreed price). Materials are VeRy expensive currently and I think he genuinely needed the money to buy materials for the next job / pay labourers. So not unusual and YABU by not paying (sorry if u have already have!).

Lj99x · 20/06/2022 20:12

Are you actually ok? Like why would you not pay someone for the work they done the day the completed the work or at least the day after if you were as you say busy. I’m sorry but id have been at your front door Monday morning asking for it, not just texting. You are rude and I think the said tradesman probably wouldn’t want to work for you again as he now knows you don’t pay in reasonable time.

tararabumdeay · 20/06/2022 20:15

What are you going to achieve by just not paying him?

Lizzy53 · 20/06/2022 20:21

So have you?

juas · 20/06/2022 20:23

Are you serious? Imagine being told you would get your monthly wage, when they had time to get around to it.

Some people live job to job, he was probably chasing you because he needed that money to make ends meet.

I don’t know why people take the piss when a trade or service from a small business takes place but would kick off it the same thing happened to their wage.

JustDoingMe · 20/06/2022 20:25

The time you took to ask this question on mumsnet you could have paid him.
If he did a good job just pay him, you don't know his situation and may be depending on that money to pay HIS bills, if he has completed the job why should he wait for payment
I am sure you would be pissed if your employer told you to wait for your wages because they were too busy to deal!

MadKittenWoman · 20/06/2022 20:26

As a self-employed person, I say: Pay. Him. Now.

Hmm1234 · 20/06/2022 20:37

Pay him what’s YOUR issue! He should of came back the same evening for payment if you ask me.

Incognitomum11 · 20/06/2022 20:38

As a former trades person myself most people pay the same day. I wouldn’t chase like that but j would be annoyed if you didn’t pay asap.

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