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To think that we need to stop flushing anything down the toilet except for toilet paper.

193 replies

WishILivedInThrushGreen · 17/06/2022 22:08

metro.co.uk/2022/06/16/calls-for-mandatory-do-not-flush-labelling-on-wet-wipes-16840997/

Wipes are often described as biodegradable but they don't biodegrade in the sewer. They biodegrade in landfill over a long period of time.

I really welcome Yorkshire's stance on this and it would be hoped that all councils and water companies will clamp down on the use of them.

There needs to be better labelling on packs of wet wipes and a shift away from using them, particularly as many contain micro plastics that leach into waterways.

If you need to use them then put them in a bin so that councils can incinerate or bury them where they can decompose.

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BobbieWaterbury · 18/06/2022 09:31

I used to flush tampons in the nineties but wouldn't dream of it since I read about it about 20 years ago.
Now I use reusable pads when heavy or period pants for lighter days.
Don't use any wipes, just loo paper but if I'm messy (have IBD) I shower or if out, use hot water and soap to clean.

My mum has a plumbed in bum shower (small shower head next to her loo), it's awesome!

easyday · 18/06/2022 09:46

I thought it was a truth universally known that you do not flush wipes?
For years I thought I could flush tampons so that was a shocker when I realised.
Some cat litter is advertised as flushable which can't be right.

chaosmaker · 18/06/2022 10:01

Ladymartin · 17/06/2022 23:09

Also judge away for the tampon thing but when your period is so heavy you have to actually remove them when sat on the toilet and let them go as they are absolutely dripping (sorry tmi) you may understand how hard it would be to try and place them in a plastic bag which is probably rubbish for the environment anyway.

Nope, still always binned them, then again I had to use a pad as well so always just wrapped it up in that. Have had the odd one come out with gravity though and those did get flushed .

In the 80's everyone tore and flushed pads. Then sanny bins started being introduced in pubic toilets and people started to get the message not to flush them at all.

WhatNoRaisins · 18/06/2022 10:02

I'm not sure we can assume anything in this area is universally known. Unlike that bowel stuff advert in real life we don't tend to discuss bodily functions over a coffee.

chaosmaker · 18/06/2022 10:22

Maybe bidets are the way to go in general.

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I used to live in the UK and have wondered the same. No idea why it isn't more widely used over there! Would love for someone to shed some light on this

mrsfoof · 18/06/2022 11:17

Ladymartin · 17/06/2022 23:09

Also judge away for the tampon thing but when your period is so heavy you have to actually remove them when sat on the toilet and let them go as they are absolutely dripping (sorry tmi) you may understand how hard it would be to try and place them in a plastic bag which is probably rubbish for the environment anyway.

Sit further back on the seat so you can reach in front. Hold onto the string and get a wadge of loo paper in the other hand to wrap the tampon in. Place in paper disposal bag in necessary before putting in the bin.

xsquared · 18/06/2022 11:30

If your tampon is so bloody that it slips out before you have a chance to catch it to wrap it, then maybe you need a more absorbent tampon or consider a mooncup?

Heavy periods doesn't sit right with me as an excuse of littering the beaches with used tampons.

WhatNoRaisins · 18/06/2022 11:31

I think doctors need to stop pretending it's normal to have such heavy periods that tampons behave like that but that's a whole other topic.

mrsfoof · 18/06/2022 11:32

Those people who 'don't want a bin full of shitty wipes' - can I ask what you did when your DC were babies and presumably shat in their nappies? (I'm assuming that folk who are happy to flush wipes aren't the likely demographic for using cloth nappies).

WhiteTeaNoSugar · 18/06/2022 11:35

But then they wouldn’t have any interesting documentaries about fatbergs ☹️

user1496146479 · 18/06/2022 12:01

Purpleplaydohperson · 17/06/2022 22:13

What about so-called flushable wipes?

No!

user1496146479 · 18/06/2022 12:04

AnnaSW1 · 17/06/2022 22:52

I'm in my 30s . Also taught to flush tampons and pads also any liquid food like cereal or soup.. and I still do

Ffs!!! You flush tampons & pads!!
HmmBiscuit

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 18/06/2022 12:24

chantico · 18/06/2022 06:46

I not sure how easy it is to ban a product on environmental grounds, but I have never understood who would use these.

I use them, much more hygienic than a toilet brush

namechange30455 · 18/06/2022 13:27

AlmostAJillSandwich · 18/06/2022 07:24

YABU to all those saying toilet wipes shouldn't be available. For some people those flushable toilet wipes are a necessity. If you're lucky enough to not suffer from a digestive condition like crohns, UC, IBS etc, then you're probably blissfully unaware of how painful they can be. Sadly their bowel movements are often very messy and require a lot more clean up than a healthy persons. Even just wiping the bare minimum of times to get clean with dry tp, leaves many sufferers with incredibly irritated, chapped anuses with multiple tears in the skin that rip open and bleed quite profusely every time you use the toilet (so multiple times a day) and even the lightest touch with dry paper feels like sand paper and leaves them crying in pain. Away from the toilet the pain is still constant, can't sit down, and they can be in that condition for months at a time during bad flare ups as they never get a break for the wounds and skin to heal. Similar to how chapped and painful your nose gets when you have a cold and have to keep blowing/wiping, but your anus. With the toilet wipes, they can get clean so much quicker and easier with far less wipes, causing so much less irritation and damage to the anus. The improvement in quality of life is incredible.
I'm sure they are similarly just as helpful for people with bowel incontinence, and also give people with various physical and mental health issues the dignity to be able to clean themselves adequately after the toilet than require the help of another person.

As for the flush vs bin debate, i pay 3 times the price for the more expensive ones because they're certified fine to flush, biodegradable and approved to do so by water companies. I'm not about to put anything with literal shit on it anywhere but down the toilet to be flushed away. No way am i having a bin full of shitty wipes sitting in my bathroom, nor then carrying it through my house and having shitty wipes in my outside bin. That's incredibly unhygienic and plain disgusting.

Do you have DC? What did you do with baby wipes/disposable nappies?

lightisnotwhite · 18/06/2022 20:42

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 18/06/2022 12:24

I use them, much more hygienic than a toilet brush

How hygienic does it need to be? A toilet brush is rinsed in the flush and put in a pot. No one ever actually touches the brush or the toilet bowl do they.

ballsdeep · 18/06/2022 20:44

LimesandClementines · 17/06/2022 22:17

My DP works for our water board and you wouldn't believe the amount of call outs they get for blockages which are caused by wipes, tampons, nappies, and all manner of bizarre things that have been flushed.

It always amazes me how a nappy can fit down the toilet!!!

ginghamstarfish · 18/06/2022 21:01

Some of us have never done this. People are idiots, surely it's been in the news often enough about the fatbergs etc? They should start charging more to unblock drains when it's down to stuff like this.

CatLadyDrinksGin · 18/06/2022 21:08

ginghamstarfish · 18/06/2022 21:01

Some of us have never done this. People are idiots, surely it's been in the news often enough about the fatbergs etc? They should start charging more to unblock drains when it's down to stuff like this.

Basically quite a lot of people are thick and make
no attempt to educate themselves in many areas of life. It’s depressing! I used cloth nappies and reusable wipes for twins, use menstrual cups and washable pads now and also have a bowel disorder so well aware of how sore it can be when you have many liquid movements per day. I still don’t use single use wipes or even consider flushing them because I’m not a selfish twat. Reusable wipes are great for adults as well as babies!!

XenoBitch · 18/06/2022 21:10

No way am i having a bin full of shitty wipes sitting in my bathroom, nor then carrying it through my house and having shitty wipes in my outside bin. That's incredibly unhygienic and plain disgusting

Wow, so people who dispose of their dog's poo and kid's nappies in their own bins, even their wheelie bin, are unhygienic and disgusting?

XenoBitch · 18/06/2022 21:13

lightisnotwhite · 18/06/2022 20:42

How hygienic does it need to be? A toilet brush is rinsed in the flush and put in a pot. No one ever actually touches the brush or the toilet bowl do they.

It always amazes me the lengths people go to to have a germ free toilet. You are literally hovering over it and pissing/shitting down it. You are not eating anything out of it.
I once read somewhere that the toilet was more often than not, the cleanest thing in the average household. Sure food prep areas should be the cleanest?

Alphabet1spaghetti2 · 18/06/2022 21:14

@ginghamstarfish i like the idea. But from this thread (I know a very small sample of the population), it seems that the people who don’t flush irresponsibly are the same people who have to pay for the unblocking, those that block their neighbours shared drains seem to get away with it.
Perhaps the cost should be added /shared amongst all those on the same part of the drainage system? might educate the uncaring a bit quicker??

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 18/06/2022 21:24

lightisnotwhite · 18/06/2022 20:42

How hygienic does it need to be? A toilet brush is rinsed in the flush and put in a pot. No one ever actually touches the brush or the toilet bowl do they.

I do know that, I just don't want a toilet brush sitting in a pot in the water that's coming off it. Anyway, surely it's not great for the environment to use a toilet brush with plastic bristles that will need replacing every so often? At least the Duck brush heads are biodegradable.

Actually the best thing I did for toilet cleaning was to get a rimless toilet - nowhere for limescale to gather and much easier to clean.

TheKeatingFive · 18/06/2022 21:37

I just don't want a toilet brush sitting in a pot in the water that's coming off it.

Just clean it. It's not hard.

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