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AIBU to want to be a social worker?

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user0512 · 17/06/2022 16:12

Hi All,

So, sometimes I contemplate on completing a child social work degree (I already have a degree - but I contemplate doing a conversion so I can practice as a social worker). But I wanted to know what it's really like?

What are the pros and cons? What kinds of cases are you currently working with (of course without mentioning any names etc)

Thanks

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bettyswaps1 · 18/06/2022 22:35

i agree @giddygallopgirl . The lack of services makes the really tough job worse. I find it all really demoralising. I know the families think SW are useless and doing nothing to help but it really is out of our control.

I definitely think it would be a good idea trying out a social work assistant job first to see if you like it and also to get some experience. You might find they offer to pay for you to do your degree if you do like it.

It’s a shame, as with the right level of staff, budget and services it would be such a rewarding and enjoyable job.

Good luck

FriendofDorothy · 05/07/2022 16:42

I have been a social worker for 22 years and I work in substance misuse. My job involves working with adults but being involved in a lot of child protection cases, ongoing therapeutic work with individual clients, domestic violence meetings and some prison work.

I love my job but it is bloody hard work. You need to have clear, strong boundaries and be prepared to put up with a lot of shit. I have had clients threaten me and my children and I have been verbally abused on multiple occasions.

Hpowever, I like most of my clients, They are resileint and entertainign and I love seeing then make change, Of course it can be disappointing and sad at times but it is definitely not boring.

I am also a Practice Educator so I have students on placement. Hugely satisfying but you had to really want to do the job to make it work for you.

Knockknockandout · 11/07/2022 17:23

socialworkme · 17/06/2022 18:50

I'm currently a social worker, for how long I'm not sure.
I have worked in frontline (child protection, court and children in care) and in roles like adoption and fostering too.

It's really really hard. There's never enough time/support/resources.

If you're in frontline roles you will be fire fighting. You'll be working well over your paid hours, you'll be working weekends and evenings doing all the paperwork you don't have time to do in your hours.

There are good bits and there will be rewarding days too but you really do have to be very resilient to get through it.

In terms of cases, it really depends on your role but in safeguarding you'll have neglect, abuse, children with non-accidental injuries, parents with mental health and addiction issues.

You'll be pretty unpopular with most of these families because a social worker turning up at your door is rarely welcomed. I have never been physically attacked but colleagues have. I have been verbally abused very regularly. Tensions are high, parents are frightened, stressed, worried.

You'll often have a really good understanding of what can be done to help these families, but they probably won't get it.

If you work with a children's disabilities team for example, there's less conflict and hostility but you and the families will be endlessly frustrated.

Child in care social work is very busy also, big caseloads and there are always placements in crisis and breaking down. Huge amounts of travel.
You could live in Essex and have a child placed in wales for example.

Fostering and adoption are different roles. Not without their challenges and pressures. You'd be assessing prospective carers/adopters and supervising/supporting them whist safeguarding the children in their care.
Still high case loads unless you go to independent agencies.

So I've painted a fairly bleak picture as have others but that's not the whole story.
I believe passionately in the role and I am proud to be a social worker. It is rewarding and you will help people and support them to make positive change.

All the hard bits of social work are manageable with:
Good management and support.

Lower caseloads.

Resources available to you.

Good annual leave and the time to take it.

Feeling safe and protected yourself as it's very hard to do your best for the children if you aren't ok yourself.

At the moment mostly that stuff isn't where it should be and social workers are trying to patch and fill those gaps which is relentless and soul destroying.
It's devastating to know that children aren't getting what they need to be safe, well and thriving.

This is so spot on!

notnownorma · 11/07/2022 17:33

user0512 · 17/06/2022 22:01

Are you held accountable when they go missing? is it up to you to find them? Surely that would be down to the police right?

Yes because social workers are hard bitches and only care about things that are their legal responsibility.🙄

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