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TheLostNights · 15/06/2022 16:56

A nursery worker being allowed to work in the same room as her 5 month old baby. OK or not?

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mosesbassist · 15/06/2022 16:57

Fine but I don't know the rules

AyeUpMeDuck · 15/06/2022 16:57

Why wouldn't it be ok?

LIZS · 15/06/2022 16:58

Depends on policy of nursery. Some would allow it, others would not.

BaaCake · 15/06/2022 17:09

A think it will be fine in a short staff situation but it's probably best they work in a different toom

BaaCake · 15/06/2022 17:09

Or they look after their own kid. Otherwise it's extra pressure for the other staff.

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 15/06/2022 17:16

Oof I couldn't do that. I'd be biased towards my child unintentionally and I think my child would spend the whole day hanging off me and getting jealous if I was giving other children attention

Wowcherarestalkingme · 15/06/2022 17:19

In principle it’s fine I suppose but I’d hate it if I were that child’s key worker and had to look after the child in front of their mum

TheLostNights · 15/06/2022 18:36

It is a real issue.
I work in a nursery and was really surprised when they said we would have a new worker who was going to have her 5 month old baby in with her also. He screams for her the whole time and her mind in my opinion, is always on him, rather than the other children. I just don't think it's right but my colleague disagrees so who knows.

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AyeUpMeDuck · 15/06/2022 18:43

If mum wasn't there and 5mlnth old screamed, wouldn't that just take someone else away from the other kids anyway?

luxxlisbon · 15/06/2022 18:46

I don’t see why it’s that bad. Parents can teach their own children, she’s paying for the childcare like everyone else and the ratio to staff/children would be the same.

If she was ignoring the other children she was a key worker for that would be a problem but you haven’t even said that so clearly that isn’t what you mean.

TheLostNights · 15/06/2022 19:13

I think he was getting distressed as he could see her but she couldn't be with him 24/7. But as I say, her mind was always on him, worrying about what he was doing when out of her sight etc. I just think it doesn't work.

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LIZS · 15/06/2022 19:14

So have you raised your concerns with the managers?

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