Rather than side-track my other thread, I thought I'd ask here.
What do you consider an affair?
AIBU to consider a husband meeting up in secret and not in secret with the same woman, kissing and groping that woman on several separate occasions in a 2 month period an affair? They had planned and booked a night in a hotel with the intention to have sex however they were found out before it could take place.
If it isn't an affair, what would you call it?