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Too over the top with hand hygiene?

29 replies

elmo89 · 12/06/2022 09:35

Since covid hit and the message was sanatise and clean your hands all the time I’m finding it hard to see a way out of the mindset.
I’ve always been one to wash hands after the bathroom,before eating, after handling the bins etc etc and am quite funny about germs anyway. But since covid I am now doing things i wouldnt have before.
For example when out and about if i touch a door handle or a seatbelt in a taxi i have to sanatise my hands right away as if I dont I panic that the germs are then being passed onto my phone, keys,basically anything i own that I would then touch.
If i for some reason forget myself and don’t do it i panic that I am going to get sick and its going to be my own fault for forgetting to sanatise. And then i have to clean down the things ive touched.
When my son gets home from school I don’t let him touch anything until he scrubs his hands first.
Am I being unreasonable to think that we need to clean our hands after everything we touch outside of our house?
How likely are we to catch covid off a door handle? Am I being over the top?
If my son presses the button at the lights and I dont get to clean his hands right away then when he touches
his schoolbag I see the germs transferring on to his bag and then his clothes etc etc 🙈
I’m driving myself mad!

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PeekabooAtTheZoo · 12/06/2022 14:10

You've recognised you've got a problem. That's a massive step forward. You can see that you're stuck in a hole... that means you've got insight. That is really positive.
I'm a bit like this with hand hygiene. It got really out of control after DC1 was born in 2019. I had to re-wash bottles, sterilise them again if they'd been in the steriliser long enough for it to go cold, clean my nipples before letting DC1 feed (combi feeding), wouldn't let DH do the washing up because I was scared he would do it wrong, etc.
Weirdly, the OTT-ness of Covid knocked it out of me and I'm better about it now because I think I finally realised I was trying to control something that fundamentally I had no real control over. Babies get sick. People get sick. We can't control that as much as we'd like to. I still wash my hands but I'm nowhere near as anxious about it all.

RepublicOfNarnia · 12/06/2022 14:16

I'm going to go out on a limb and say that yanbu. I don't think you should be panicking as such but what you describe is how I am too. I don't touch door handles with my bare hands, I press the buttons on cash machines or traffic lights or buses with my knuckles, elbows etc. I always have sanitiser in my hand bag. I think a lot of people actually thrive on being filthy you see it all the time on Mumsnet with competitive non-showering. Prioritising cleanliness is a good thing.

moita · 12/06/2022 18:09

Feel for you OP. I developed OCD with hand washing- guess what: still got covid 🙄

CBT really helped me. I'm still probably a bit over the top compared to some but I'm not packing or obsessive about it anymore.

elmo89 · 13/06/2022 09:11

I know my son has had covid 3 times, myself twice and my husband and baby once. Yet i know people who don’t bother sanatising etc n have never caught it. So i know logically it doesnt matter but for some reason I just have this conpelling need to continue these behaviours 😫

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