since we've had our beautiful baby he complains to me i have no time for him. questions whether i love him which i find ridiculous as we've always been a very loving couple. i'm so tired and in my spare time i wash dishes, cook or clean clothes. i have two other kids too. i'm breastfeeding baby and attentively looking after and teaching baby. i help my grandma out when i can and in between all of this i nap very rarely if possible. sometimes i can't even go to the toilet without being called upon. he says to me "you have all day to do these things" when i explain how i have no time for even myself. i'm happy though until he brings this up, i'm sorry your penis is feeling like it's the other baby i'm not looking after but the baby is the priority and it's not very motivational when guilted and told i have all day to cook and clean.....love him but want to feel understood and supported not patronised and questioned! exasperated! AIBU?