I need some perspective here as to whether I'm being unreasonable. Sorry it's a bit long! By way of background, I am on medication for hormone related breast cancer, which causes me to have menopause symptoms including severe hot flushes and night sweats. (I am post menopausal, never had a single symptom!) As a result of this I am hot most of the time, and will be dripping wet with sweat several times a day/night. As a result of this, I always try to keep a small window in our bedroom open, as the fresh air helps - especially as it's on my side of the bed. Unfortunately, my DH is always cold, and despite him knowing why I have the window open, insists on closing it at every possible opportunity, and I regularly have to get up in the night and reopen it. (I do also have a fan which I use when the weather is warmer, but it's not been warm enough yet this year). I have asked him numerous times not to shut the window, and if he's cold, he can wear a T shirt or PJs (currently sleeps in his boxers).
So AIBU to tell him to f*ck right off and to stab him (not literally, obviously) next time he does this? And if anyone has any suggestions as to how I can make him understand just how blooming horrible it is for me, I'd be very grateful...