The reason we notice that people are dying of cancer though is because people are living longer with cancer.
It used to be that people got cancer, then died. It was rare to hear of people going through years and years of chemo and radiotherapy and then gradually sinking, obviously chemo/radio therapy was available back then but the treatments were less effective.But now people have the time,and means (social media) to talk about their cancer journey, and so we hear more about it.
And it is a fact that lifestyle is the cause of most cancers, around 75% iirc. That doesn’t mean that someone is necessarily to blame if they die of cancer, but it does mean that many cancers are preventable. Of course some cancers just happen. But we can’t avoid talking about the need for many lifestyle changes just because it will upset someone who didn’t live in such a way that their cancer could have been prevented.
Smoking, drinking, obesity, to name just a couple of things are responsible for cancer. Equally though there are other factors which mean that sometimes we put benefit over risk.
So e.g. if you take HRT you’re more likely to develop breast and ovarian cancer. Organ transplant recipients are more likely to develop cancer. And yet in those situations we opt for those treatments because for now, we benefit from them. But there is still potentially a price to pay for going through them. Iyswim.
I personally had 2 friends and several teachers and their partners die of cancer when I was growing up.
My cousin was diagnosed with leukaemia when he was 3. He went through chemo and radiotherapy and into remission, twice. But every week they would go to the hospital for his treatments, and there would be another child gone. Dying from leukaemia at that point was in fact more common than surviving it.
And that is the same with so many other cancers. The survival rates are much much higher than they used to be. But people will always die from it, and now we are able to watch thos people dying through media and social media etc which makes it seem more common than it used to be whereas actually it’s less common.