Background:
I married 20 years. I discovered ex camming and having affairs 2 years ago. Marriage ended-part of the reason being he "fell in love" with one of his camming friends abroad after 3 weeks mutual wanking.
He's visited her a few times. She's not been over here.
Ex and I have 2 teens together. He sees 1 for about 4 hours a week, doesn't see the other one at all because she doesn't want to see him. This is because he treated them like crap, forced me and them to move out of the family home into emergency accomodation.
I had to contact the police 3 times over his behaviour towards me...he got charged on every one. A neighbour called the police on him at his new house due to the way he was being abusive to his child in the street.
Today:
I'm on an internet wormhole due to Bank holiday boredom. I go on his FB account, not much to see. I link onto his foreign "girlfriend's" account and I find the picture I've posted here. Which made me laugh so much. My ex treated me, and his kids, like absolute shit and still does. Ex has liked/loved all her posts except this one. My ex MIL has liked a few of her posts, but not this one.
All through the divorce, I've tried to rise above. Refrained from social media posting against him. Not taken the bait when he's tried to goad me. Even thanked friends who've sent me his social media posts against me, but not said anything back against him. Bottom line is my kids might see something if I posted... They're too precious to risk that happening.
But this picture of hers...I really want to post things about what her "boyfriend" did to the mother of his children. What he's still doing.
I also want to say to her "You've been separated from your ex for at least 18 months I'm guessing. Have some dignity and stop posting publicly about him"
I know I won't, but boy do I want to let rip.
YABU - Why did you look, you stupid woman?
YANBU - Go on, let rip. You've been more than reasonable all through. Try to warn a fellow female what she's dealing with.