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To ask what careers guidance/advice your parents gave you?

32 replies

Thatsthewaylovegoes · 03/06/2022 07:20

What was good advice they gave you?

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FelicityFlops · 03/06/2022 08:43

Absolutely none whatsoever (both degree-educated professionals with high managerial positions).
The only thing they rather passive/aggressively did was to "prevent" me from doing what I originally wanted to do and did not communicate things they had discussed with my headmistress (such as having a year off before university).
As a result I felt like leaving school was falling into a black hole. I had no idea what I was good at or even what I liked/enjoyed doing.

Shortbread49 · 03/06/2022 08:50

Leave school at 16 and be a secretary, I got the best O levels and ignored them, they weren’t pleased and were never interested in me after that

Josephsrose · 03/06/2022 08:50

My dad in the early 80s
'you're so clever, you could be a PA one day.'
Me in arsey teen mode 'Why can't I be a MANAGER dad?'

Coasterfan · 03/06/2022 08:52

I was given no support or guidance at all, hence why I have a job I despise that is utterly all consuming and is certainly not a career and I m a complete loser as an adult. I am determined not to do the same for my two, I want them to be happy and successful.

Edgyandstressed · 03/06/2022 08:53

My parents supported my further education because to them education was a higher measure of achievement than money.
Their best advice as follows:

  • Father: Stand up straight and stick your tits out (which meant be proud to be a woman, work on your terms without compromise)
  • Mother: Question any rules - you can be sure there's always someone breaking them (which I've found to be true)
SoggyPaper · 03/06/2022 08:55

No specific careers advice but my mum
was very keen to impress on me the need to never be dependent on a man and to make certain I can support myself and my children.

It was based on her experience of my dad being atrocious after they separated. But it’s stood me in good stead given how rubbish I seem to be at picking decent partners.

Bdragon · 03/06/2022 09:01

None, beyond being made to do all academic subjects for O level (despite being good at drama and art), and then an absolute resolution that I must go to university.

No real sense or direction to any of it.

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