I don't quite know how to start without waffling. I did the ancestry DNA and found out who I thought my biological Father was is not and an old family friend is. My biological Father is a long time dead and so is my Dad that raised me.
It wasn't a surprise and I sort of did the DNA to search for answers. I was always treated as the black sheep of the family and there was a lot of arguments and toxicity within the family. When my Dad that raised me died it just got worse. My Dad was lovely and really was the only person that made me feel loved. My Mum is toxic. I have been nc with my Mum and family for 10 years.
Anyway, I confronted my Mum and she did a President Clinton and said she did not have sexual relations with this man.
I have cousins from this persons side of the family. It is so upsetting and I am so angry with her. I asked some of my brothers and one of my sisters. One brother said he didn't know, the other brother pretended that he didn't know who I was even talking about and my sister told me I was causing trouble and told me off. I have been watching a Stacey Dooley programme on DNA and it has triggered all sorts of feelings. This man died when I was a teenager and I was at his graveside when he died. Did everyone know but me? I have had counselling but I just wish my Mum would tell the truth.