Would you forgive your partner for saying this?

[Ishacoco]

Context: abroad, in holiday. DP snoring is an issue and has been very much recently, seriously preventing me from sleeping (I am pregnant). Tonight I said (perfectly nicely) that one of us had to sleep elsewhere because he was snoring and he said "Oh you're all happiness and joy aren't you, never happy unless you're making someone else miserable." Said in a nasty tone.

I admit it could be pregnancy hormones but I am so, so hurt. I think it's a horrible thing to say and so, so wrong, Im not like that at all!. I'm struggling to move past it today.

Would you forgive your partner for saying this?

YABU - it's not that bad, get over yourself.

YANBU - it was a cruel and unnecessary thing to say and you're right to be hurt.

If he said that based only on that disagreement and what you've told us then of course he's being a dick and you're in the right.

But people don't say things like that out of nowhere and there's definitely a wider context going on here.