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Relaxing2 · 27/05/2022 21:42

Hi all im looking for some advise my son lost his dad when he was nearly 3 he's now 4 every morning he doesn't want to go to school he's cry's tells me he's not well bad cough and this morning he's had his head in a jug trying to force hisself to be sick so he doesn't have to go says no one plays with him and he's nasty the teachers are all well aware of this I've been to the head a few times but he pulling him out and bringing him back home isn't the answer in all of this he's dragged me to the floor today holding on me doesn't want to go in I've told him im getting him within the hour for a doctors appointment it's breaking my heart my son has to keep going threw this he's due to have councilling too any advise please

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Notimeforaname · 27/05/2022 22:32

Until he gets counselling, maybe it is a good idea to take him out sometimes, if that's doable for you or just have him in for a few hours if his presence isn't compulsory?

I'm sorry you're both having such a difficult time.

Hopefully the wait for counselling wont be too long.
You sound as though you're doing all you can for him op💐

Mally100 · 27/05/2022 22:35

Oh poor boy and you op 🌷. It's alot for him to be dealing with. Is it possible to pull him out, change schools or even a smaller setting. He needs counselling and play therapy to unpack all the huge emotions he's feeling.

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Relaxing2 · 28/05/2022 08:11

Thank you for your replies I've asked for meeting with all staff after they got back after this half term cuz enough is enough I just feel as tho they aren't even supporting us at much I mean I'll say to my lad go on baby I'll stand here and watch you walk in and soon as he's got past the door this bitch of a teacher just shuts the door I'm fuming with him I really am I'm hurting cuz my babies hurting

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Mally100 · 28/05/2022 09:36

Are you in a position to take your baby out? No wonder he feels this distraught if they are not giving him extra special care and attention which he deserves now. Or look at a smaller setting, like a childminder? Maybe school is just too overwhelming for him as well.

PyjamaFan · 28/05/2022 10:10

The bitch of a teacher shuts the door??

Pinkflipflop85 · 28/05/2022 10:19

Came on to offer support and advice but then read your last comment. Pathetic.

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Relaxing2 · 28/05/2022 10:57

@Pinkflipflop85 what's pathetic?

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Relaxing2 · 28/05/2022 11:00

Should of said fuming with them not HIM

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Pinkflipflop85 · 28/05/2022 11:02

Relaxing2 · 28/05/2022 10:57

@Pinkflipflop85 what's pathetic?

Calling your child's teacher a bitch.

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Relaxing2 · 28/05/2022 11:05

And who are you to judge? Do you have a child that's breaking his heart going into school for over the last 9 months since he's lost his daddy!! Prob not so until you've been in my situation and walked in my shoes and been to the teachers and begged them for help and they don't help you I've been around the school and seen my son sitting on his own doing nothing and they teachers should support us he should feel safe we're he is

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Beachsidesunset · 28/05/2022 11:14

He's not of compulsory school age yet, is he? Take him out. You obviously don't like the school or staff, so how are things going to improve?

PyjamaFan · 28/05/2022 20:58

There is absolutely no excuse for calling the teacher a bitch, no matter what you or your son are going through.

You ought to be ashamed of your comment.

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