DH has just called me a ‘horrible c*nt’ because I’m not overjoyed about the surprise event tickets he’s bought me for my birthday which will involve my Parents in having to have our infant school aged children overnight. One of my parents has an unpredictable condition where they take seizures and have falls. I wouldn’t have minded so much had my sibling been around but they’re also at the same event and they are also now stressing. I’m very happy to look after my own kids overnight and have no expectation that anyone would ever have them, am I being unreasonable?