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To be anxious about this at work?

7 replies

ILoveAndrew · 25/05/2022 19:23

I work with adults, some from a deprived background. Many are living in poverty. Today I took them on a day out in the city for a walk around.

At one attraction there are lockers which need a £1 to lock and the £1 is then refunded after use. When one lady opened her locker, the £1 spat out and rolled under a fixture. This lady said that going on the bus was a rare treat because it's expensive and she never buys a drink whilst out from the shop as it's too expensive, so she is living with very little money and none for luxuries. I could tell she was upset she had lost the £1 but she didn't let on.

I know that that £1 could've bought her a loaf of bread or a few tins of soup, so I handed her a £1 coin I had found on the pavement on my way to meet the group. I am now worrying that I have done wrong and that I will get in trouble at work for giving her this. My work have very strict rules regarding giving/receiving gifts from people who use our service, but it was £1! Am I being ridiculous?

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awkwardoldlady · 25/05/2022 19:25

naah you picked up the £1 that had dropped right?

Charmanderzard · 25/05/2022 19:25

Could you not just say you found the £1 that rolled under the locker? Just don't make a habit of giving clients money and be careful they don't start putting pressure on you for larger amounts.

Badgirlriri · 25/05/2022 19:25

Yes, kindly, you are being ridiculous. If you’re so worried just say you managed to get her £1 back that dropped on the floor.

grafittiartist · 25/05/2022 19:26

You were just replacing the £1. And you did the right thing. A pound is precious.

EcafTnuc · 25/05/2022 19:26

I am now worrying that I have done wrong and that I will get in trouble at work for giving her this. My work have very strict rules regarding giving/receiving gifts from people who use our service, but it was £1
IF it comes back to you, could you say you retrieved the £1 later in the day as you didn’t want her to go home without it, knowing her financial situation?

ILoveAndrew · 25/05/2022 19:29

Thank you for your replies. She might say something to colleagues so I was worrying!

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ChristineCagney11 · 25/05/2022 19:30

YABU
Yes those types of rules are in place for obvious reasons but many people bend them here and there. It was a quid you found on the street let it go.

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