named changed for this.
I don’t know if it’s in my head or not.
Been with my partner for 8 years, recently his brother met someone who’s been with her a year now. But I have this feeling my partner has feelings for her or just respects her far more than he has ever done me.
Since meeting her he’s changed towards me in a massive way he puts me down all the time saying I’m a terrible mum, he compares to me to her all the time saying she’s a nicer person than me, she’s better than me she’s got a better job she has more about her than me…Tells me I’m jealous of her (I’m not) He invited her over to our house with his mum, fine but then she verbally attacked me saying that my eldest child doesn’t have autism I’m making it up (again I’m not he does have it he’s been diagnosed) saying it’s my fault cos I have mental health starting calling me names putting me down id not long had a baby either so she called me fat and pathetic. He did nothing to defend me at all and told me i was wrong for asking her to leave. He has a child from a pervious relationship he told me today that he as in his son was rude for not wanting to talk to her and i said well i dont blame him when she talks to him she goes on like his mother and constantly tells him how horrible and naughty he is. (hes 13 so has his own mind) she also accused him of theft he didnt do it. but again he defended her and told me to fuck off its his son and shes innocent and again told me how I was a nasty person and was just jealous of her, told me if I didn’t fix up and stop being horrible to her he would leave me. And that’s just some of the things that’s happened I could go on.
anyway he clearly doesn’t love me anymore does he? Or value me as a person, this isn’t really to do with her it’s more the way he his towards me but clearly he has something for her right?