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Great orgasm, but this has irked me

32 replies

Ncbecauseouting · 23/05/2022 21:43

DP and I are trying for baby number 2. We had sex and it was fine, nothing mind blowing, and he got off. All good. I don’t always orgasm during sex so usually we’ll move to masturbation afterwards so I can ‘finish’. We did just that but this time, it was like he was in a huge rush, i felt really under pressure to finish. I had a great orgasm considering, but as soon as I was done he got straight up, dressed, and went downstairs for a cigarette leaving me just lying there while I was still catching my breath. AIBU to think this was really rude? feeling quite irked by this and have asked him what’s up but he’s adamant he’s fine. Not sure if I’m just overreacting but it felt really inconsiderate.

OP posts:
Blossomtoes · 23/05/2022 23:19

dementedpixie · 23/05/2022 22:47

Maybe you should switch to having your orgasm first before PIV starts

Wouldn’t work for us. I lose interest completely afterwards.

Blarting · 24/05/2022 06:27

Maurepas · 23/05/2022 22:22

He should not be smoking especially if TTC.

That's not the question here and you don't need to police that.

I'm massively anti smoking, but it's no one's business in this situation.

girlmom21 · 24/05/2022 06:33

This would put me off sex with him.

Snowflakes1122 · 24/05/2022 06:37

He seems preoccupied- what is is doing when he is glued to his phone?

ATadConfused · 24/05/2022 06:38

I'd be wanting to get my hands on his phone & see what was causing the 'stuck to' & rush to get back to it & I would be using contraception until I was sure it wasn't another woman.

FourOclock · 24/05/2022 06:39

Blossomtoes · 23/05/2022 23:19

Wouldn’t work for us. I lose interest completely afterwards.

Maybe OP's DH does too...

TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 24/05/2022 06:42

Blossomtoes · 23/05/2022 23:19

Wouldn’t work for us. I lose interest completely afterwards.

But that’s what the OP is saying her DH did after his orgasm and everyone’s saying how selfish he is?

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