What to do in this situation

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Hi,

The man I am dating is blowing hot and cold. Giving me enough attention to keep me interested but is not showing the same interest as before. I’m not sure what to do in this situation as I really like him and as far as I knew as well ok until now.

I would keep my options open and go on a few dates with other people. I would imagine that is what he is doing too. Don't be too available - I'm not saying to put him off if you are free - that is completely up to you - but don't keep dates free in case he calls, and don't cancel other things if he says he wants to see you. And let him know if you have something else planned when he wants to see you... You don't have to tell him what it is unless you want to. Just, sorry I'm busy on Tuesday, or whatever. That will either make him realise that actually he does want to see you and he needs to make a bit more of an effort, or that actually he's not that bothered about seeing you, in which case you haven't put your life on hold for him.

Back right off and let him do the running. If he's blowing hot and cold at this early stage, I'm afraid he's just not that into you. Up to you how you deal with that, but I'd cut my losses unless he made a massive effort to step up and kept it up

Find someone who offers you what you want.

Do you want hot and cold?

Why do you like him when he’s treating you poorly?