Me and DH are in our late twenties and don’t have any children. Whenever we go out for a meal or go on holiday or for a weekend away, it’s me that makes a plan before asking if he is up for it (which he always is) and arranges/books this. We have had an argument about him prioritising work and never having any time for me, and it got me thinking that I can’t remember the last time he booked us a table at a restaurant or made any plans for just the two of us himself. For the first couple of years of our relationship he was very good at this and always made an effort to plan things. I don’t expect this very often and it doesn’t have to involve a lot of spend but I feel like unless I make plans, we don’t end up doing anything. Am I expecting too much of him? Do other people’s partners make plans themselves/ do you still go on date nights or should I accept that married life means staying at home watching tv every night?