I no longer work "officially", but my DH brings in just shy of £1m per annum (after tax) but topped up with some additional income of mine, it brings it to just over the full £1m...
Half of that goes straight to our investments & savings, then the rest is all lifestyle expenses, (which we break up into wants and needs).
Household takes half of what's left = £250k (mortgage, running costs & groceries etc)
Then £125k to all other must pay, reacuring costs (like school fees, memberships & subscriptions, cars, allowances etc)
£62.5k to discretionary spending and £62.5k to 4 overseas holidays throughout the year and 4 weekends away...
As you can see, we're very conservative and live way below our means, we could spend a lot more, (better house/more fun etc) but we just choose to be simple & wait for the proof of growth.
We're in a very fortunate position indeed, that's not taken for granted, but our goal is to sustain such an income standard passively (which we should be able to, after a decade or so), hence the rather heavy investment...
Hope this helps and the openness is appreciated xx
P.S. For those wondering, he's in finance, I was in law :)