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To be upset re:therapy

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UndertheCedartree · 20/05/2022 19:48

I've been trying to access therapy for many years. I've done IAPT level 2 & 3 and both times the 10 sessions left me in a state of having opened up but not enough time to resolve anything so just left to deal with it on my own. After the level 3 I had a mental breakdown. I was in hospital for 3 years and during this time I completed DBT with the aim that I could then start trauma therapy in the community once discharged. Unfortunately I've had to wait another 2 years so I've forgotten most of the DBT. Private therapists won't touch me as too complex. But anyway, I finally was able to start. It was my 2nd session today and I found out I am only getting 18 sessions (including last week). I'm gutted. I really don't think it will be anywhere near enough. And now I realise why last week and this week she seemed to be pushing me to talk about things before I was ready and why she is talking about finding solutions to my issues before I've barely had a chance to talk about anything. This evening I am feeling incredibly low. I feel so, so tired. I feel like giving up and so hopeless. I feel panicky and tearful and so bad. The therapist is also only a trainee and I feel like experienced private therapists won't take me on but then I'm seeing a trainee - does this make sense? I'm going to be left in an incredibly vulnerable position again. I already feel re-traumatised by being pushed to talk about things and without the benefit of having the DBT fresh in my mind as was the plan. I don't know what to do. My psych nurse has just left so I don't have her to talk to either.

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MaryMount13 · 21/05/2022 02:58

Low cost, group therapy, drama therapy and individual. Very good.

MaryMount13 · 21/05/2022 03:08

Having trouble typing on my device apologies for short choppy posts .

MaryMount13 · 21/05/2022 03:09

Loved how good they were dealing with both the BPD and the trauma.

UndertheCedartree · 21/05/2022 09:51

milkyaqua · 21/05/2022 02:12

You can, in the meantime, brush up on the DBT techniques that helped you before by looking at one of the many websites about DBT online.

Yes, this is a very good idea

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UndertheCedartree · 21/05/2022 09:53

MaryMount13 · 21/05/2022 03:09

Loved how good they were dealing with both the BPD and the trauma.

I would love to do Art therapy. Did a bit when I was on my acute ward.

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