a little rant…
I work closely with two different teams, and I Work with both of them on a fairly regular basis and think we get on well. Both teams are in different areas where I work. However, both teams hangout outside of work regularly.
Someone even invited everybody in one of teams to there hen do and wedding reception, even the two colleagues who I share reception desk with went or where invited. I spend half of time at work in this place, but didn’t get an invite. They even go out and celebrate each other’s birthdays etc. Which I’m a little hurt by. But didn’t let it show when it was happening. The other group have even been on nights out together, and staycations together.
The other team I’ve tried really hard to get to know them but yet again haven’t been invited to anything. I’ve been there for several years and there is a girl that started early this year and it’s clear by social media that she has made it into this group. Both of them feel like cliques. But I want to be apart of them as I feel like I’m stuck in no man’s land.
it just feels like I’m back in high school, but I don’t know what I’m doing wrong!