There’s this guy, we’ve only been seeing each other for 6 weeks and we are completely using one another for our own personal reasons and we are both fine with that.
However, in just 6 weeks his cancelled 3 times! Which is a problem for me, I don’t like ending up doing nothing because I feel I can’t then go out with friends when I’ve already said I’m busy in case they feel I’m using them and I really like my friends and wouldn’t want them to feel second best, so if I’ve arranged to not go out with them I don’t then change my mind as I think it looks bad so end up sitting at home doing nothing.
Everytime though his had a perfect excuse as to why his cancelled….everything conveniently happens, for instance I was supposed to go to his, he said he was I’ll but I was around the corner so drove past anyway and discovered his car wasn’t there- so to me he was obviously out with his mates instead. Which is fine if he had just said he wanted to do that, so then I could have made other plans too.
When I said about his car not being there, conveniently, his brothers car had broken down and he was using it which is why it wasn’t at his house and he says he was home as he was ill.
His lying isn’t he? I don’t really care about him and he doesn’t care about me, but I hate people wasting my time regardless of the relationship so told him I’m not interested in hanging out with him anymore.
In the back of mind I do think maybe it’s genuine reasons though, but surly not…3 different times in 6 weeks just can’t be right? Right?