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To not know what to do about back pain

41 replies

Dishwashersaurous · 16/05/2022 19:32

I've been having an ache in my lower back and shoulders, basically all along the spine, for about two weeks now.

Just thinking it will go away and carrying on as normal best I can.

Last 24hours getting more and more painful. Taken painkillers and hard to do anything as just hurts.

Can't get a private physio appointment for a couple of weeks. And almost impossible to get a gp appointment at the moment.

Should try and get a gp appointment or can I assume that the back pain will just get better. The NHS advice says back pain just gets better and nothing can be done.

So aibu to be in pain and not know what to do?

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BoDerek · 16/05/2022 21:27

I agree with the many suggestions of yoga, Pilates, acupuncture/acupressure etc

Your GP won’t be able to do much. I go to a cranial sacral therapist for any back issues, also lots of walking (on the flat, no hills), and yoga. Works like a charm.

justasking111 · 16/05/2022 21:28

Am I the only person who loves my chiropractor. Mild scoliosis discovered at an MRI last year. Lower back twisted to the right. A few visits sorted me out

purplesequins · 16/05/2022 21:38

@Dishwashersaurous So a question, how do you force yourselves to do gentle exercise when even gentle stretching and walks is so painful that you start crying.

I'm sorry you are in so much pain. it sucks.
quick answer - you do because not moving makes it worse.

chiropracters are quacks btw

SnowWhitesSM · 16/05/2022 21:39

If your pain is a 7 out of 10 or over you should NOT be moving. You shoukd be resting with alternating heat and ice on the inflammation. I have a bad back, I have arthritis and degeneration and have had sciatica for months. Every single dr and physio has told when it's 7 or over you need to rest. Putting yourself in yoga postions that stretch will not help it, you will hinder it further from recovering.

Dishwashersaurous · 16/05/2022 21:41

Thanks all.

I have booked an osteopath for Friday.

And trying to lie flat on the floor as less painful

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nancy75 · 16/05/2022 21:45

If you’re lying flat on your back put a pillow under your knees (or get someone to do it for you)
I injured my back last year, there are definitely times when you need to rest & exercise is just not possible. For over the counter drugs I found either co codamol or naproxen to be much better than paracetamol/ ibuprofen.

endofthelinefinally · 16/05/2022 21:50

Osteopath. The NHS is hopeless for back pain. Osteopaths are pretty good and they will sort you out and give advice going forward. Back pain is miserable. I hope you get some help asp. Meanwhile ice packs and ibuprofen help.

stepuporshutup · 16/05/2022 21:56

Op I suffer with lower back pain cannot take ibuprofen watching for some suggestions sorry I cannot help

planetme · 16/05/2022 21:58

I had constant back pain for years, then four years ago I went to a chiropractor who fixed me in two sessions. I floated out of there after the first session and very rarely get any back pain now.

I know a pp described chiropractors as "quacks" but it worked for me

JessicaLL · 16/05/2022 23:26

Slipped disc 10 years ago. Beware osteopaths. Try to see a private physio attached to a private hospital if you can - they deal with back surgery patients and know what they’re doing. Mine got me mobile again but it was a slow recovery. You need proper pain management - Nortriptyline was a game changer for me. Also a TENS machine, tho I was sceptical at first. Pillow between knees to sleep (I still need this), don’t sleep on back. Ice packs. Good luck

hidethetoaster · 16/05/2022 23:41

Keep calling the physio, maybe they will have a cancellation

OneTC · 16/05/2022 23:44

If you're physically capable then hang off a bar or strong enough door frame. If you're able to then rotate your hips gently whilst doing it. Do this a few times a day

CentrifugalBumblePuppy · 17/05/2022 00:19

I can only give you my experience (spinal stenosis, osteoarthritis, early onset degenerative disc disease, and a huge synovial cyst at L2-L3 I’ve named Simon. Simon is a literal pain in the arse). And a healthy dose of missing vertebrae bits & bobs thanks to a rubbish genetic roll of the dice. All diagnosed in my teens. Go me.

Gentle exercise - not Pilates or yoga or any of that - in the first few days of acute pain. Shuffling to the loo or a slow shamble around the kitchen is fine. Rest is vital; I supplement with ice packs if the pain is sharp & neural, hot water bottles when it’s a muscle on the fritz. Use rolled towels or lumbar pillows in your lumbar region, place support under your knees when laying on your back too.

I was taught to have no more than 48hrs prone before attempting longer shambles. Also, make sure you pace (as part of a long term strategy), utterly frustrating but alternating rest & short bursts of energy with rest time in between.

Unless you know the pain is definitely muscular, I’d be looking at getting some form of imaging (MRI, CT) to really see if there is any neural impingement. I’m super lucky to have my sciatic nerve trapped in a couple of places, so I have full leg involvement when it comes to the pain. Pregabalin & amytriptaline are helpful for me, I also use tramadol & paracetamol for general pain.

TENS machines are brill too.

As I’ve had surgery, I can’t have any osteopathy on my lumbar region, although I have found it useful for cervical release that was causing headaches. Avoid all chiropractors, they’re non medically trained charlatans with frankly dangerous practices & woo beliefs instead of good old science.

I do practice yoga & Pilates for core strengthening, but if there is fundamental mechanical spinal issues then medical treatment is the only way get relief. I had a discectomy & nerve root decompression at 20 & have been under orthopods for over 30 years now, you can’t fix my shambolic skeleton with a few crescent moon poses & a lotus position or two.

Physio in the short term can get you moving, whilst getting longer term exercises for strengthening muscles, improving range of movement & simply better ways to navigate things like getting out of bed & having a wee. Our GP practice now has a resident NHS physio, see what your GP can offer you. We can even get phone & Zoom sessions with him as well as appointments in person.

Hopefully OP your pain will resolve soon (I’ve had benzos added to my mix if there is muscle spasms restricting movement) & can give fast relief to get moving again, but I’m not a Dr, only they can give proper medical advice!

Good luck, it’s bloody shite having severe back pain.

madmay · 17/05/2022 05:22

*Oh, and go to A&E directly if you lose bowel or bladder control.
*
^ This - in case it's Cauda Equina. Very important you act very quickly to avoid further damage to spinal nerve. Another symptom is uncontrolled leg shaking.

Dishwashersaurous · 21/05/2022 13:26

Osteopath was brilliant.

I've basically locked vertebrae together in three separate places. Hence sore.

Lots of cracking and moving it around and feeling better already

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heldinadream · 21/05/2022 16:21

Brilliant OP. Hope it stays better. 🙂

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