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To think there should be more controls on dogs and more banned breeds

392 replies

Merryclaire · 16/05/2022 08:03

Just seen on the news that another young child has been killed by dogs - that must be at least 4 this year in the UK - there have been a number more that have thankfully not been fatal. Always seems to be (most often) a US bully or sometimes a husky. Why are there not more dog breeds being banned (especially the bully)? And why is there not more noise about dog ownership rules in general being tightened up?
For the record I have always liked dogs but these regular child attacks scare me.

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KittyWithoutAName · 16/05/2022 16:49

I just don't see how killing dogs who have harmed someone is ok, but it's not ok to put down a human who has done the exact same. A dog attacks my kid on the street? Put down. A man sexually abuses a child? Prison. Really fucking fair.

carefullycourageous · 16/05/2022 16:58

KittyWithoutAName · 16/05/2022 16:49

I just don't see how killing dogs who have harmed someone is ok, but it's not ok to put down a human who has done the exact same. A dog attacks my kid on the street? Put down. A man sexually abuses a child? Prison. Really fucking fair.

Once again, humans are humans, animals are animals.

If you want to argue for the death penalty for humans that is a different issue, but stating you don't understand the difference between a human and an animal is a bit embarrassing.

carefullycourageous · 16/05/2022 17:03

KittyWithoutAName · 16/05/2022 16:28

Your dog is an animal.

But so are humans. We are simply a different species of animal. I am not really sure what is supposed to separate us from animals. Anything you say about what separates humans from animals, and that "X is the reason other animals are lesser than humans" can be applied to various different humans too.... So, I've heard "humans are more intelligent" but pigs are as intelligent as some small children, and there are many unintelligent humans or those with severe disabilities who wouldn't reach that benchmark. Is it the soul? Of which there is no proof....

This is beyond silly.

A human is not the same as an animal in ethical terms, due to the capacity for higher order thinking.

carefullycourageous · 16/05/2022 17:08

vivainsomnia · 16/05/2022 16:06

I'm a realist, I accept the law, but in normal English the phrase 'dogs should be on leads' is acceptable
Acceptable on a forum, talking to people who agree with you. It wouldn't be acceptable for you to ask for a dog who is walked in an area where they are allowed off lead who isn't dangerously frightening to be put on the lead.

We have a park locally where children and dogs share the environment and amazingly, it's a lovely park, all get along. Kids do their things, dogs do their own and everyone enjoy dogs. Those who don't either avoid the park, or take the oaths they are least likely to be on. All very reasonable.

I wouldn't say it, I don't feel any need to tell dog owners my view, what would be the point?

But I think people are at liberty to say 'dogs should be on a lead' whether on here or to a dog owner or anywhere else. The dog owner can reply how they want.

Saucery · 16/05/2022 17:12

I’d think anyone who said “dogs should be on a lead” to me if my dog was under control and not doing anything to impact anyone else was a bit of a loon.
I wouldn’t engage with them, I’d just walk away and make sure I wasn’t in an isolated place with them, as that would ring my Possibly Dangerous alarm. Maybe report them to the park authority if applicable, in case they confronted someone vulnerable with their nonsense.

Fluval · 16/05/2022 17:12

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 16:38

It wasn't. They acted like it was a fact. That dogs SHOULD be leashed. Not that she thought they should be. Have another read.

Not being condescending at all.

You mean this post?

“Until such point as the law changes, you are at liberty to do as you wish but you can't stop people saying they think dogs should be on leads.

Dogs should be on leads”

If so, it could barely be any clearer that is was a statement of opinion.

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 17:16

Fluval · 16/05/2022 17:12

You mean this post?

“Until such point as the law changes, you are at liberty to do as you wish but you can't stop people saying they think dogs should be on leads.

Dogs should be on leads”

If so, it could barely be any clearer that is was a statement of opinion.

'Dogs should be on leads' statement. False one at that.

This is getting very tedious.

carefullycourageous · 16/05/2022 17:20

Correct, dogs should be on leadsSmile

stuntbubbles · 16/05/2022 17:23

Saucery · 16/05/2022 17:12

I’d think anyone who said “dogs should be on a lead” to me if my dog was under control and not doing anything to impact anyone else was a bit of a loon.
I wouldn’t engage with them, I’d just walk away and make sure I wasn’t in an isolated place with them, as that would ring my Possibly Dangerous alarm. Maybe report them to the park authority if applicable, in case they confronted someone vulnerable with their nonsense.

Every time I think I’ve encountered Peak Insane Dog-Owner, someone comes along with something as deliciously batshit as “I would report people who want dogs on leads to the park authority”. Please do! Bet they could do with a lol.

Fluval · 16/05/2022 17:23

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 17:16

'Dogs should be on leads' statement. False one at that.

This is getting very tedious.

The preceding paragraph makes it absolutely, abundantly clear that the poster is giving a statement of opinion.

(Just in case this needs specifying, the above is a statement of my opinion):

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 17:23

carefullycourageous · 16/05/2022 17:20

Correct, dogs should be on leadsSmile

Did you miss the 'false one at that' part of my post? Smile

Flaxmeadow · 16/05/2022 17:24

More in the papers about this latest death.
Last year in a public place someone was attacked by dogs from the same property. This person was so badly injured, arm torn 'in two', that they passed out and was taken to hospital, for surgery, by a passer by. The police and injured person persued a criminal prosecution but it was dropped, by CPS?, due to 'insufficient evidence'. If that prosecution had gone ahead, this child might still be alive today
Why was the case dropped? It wasn't dropped by the injured person. How is a surgical procedure from a dog attack not evidence? Assuming its the same dog owner, why were they still allowed to keep dogs? And why hasn't anyone been arrested yet in the case that happened yesterday?

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 17:28

Flaxmeadow · 16/05/2022 17:24

More in the papers about this latest death.
Last year in a public place someone was attacked by dogs from the same property. This person was so badly injured, arm torn 'in two', that they passed out and was taken to hospital, for surgery, by a passer by. The police and injured person persued a criminal prosecution but it was dropped, by CPS?, due to 'insufficient evidence'. If that prosecution had gone ahead, this child might still be alive today
Why was the case dropped? It wasn't dropped by the injured person. How is a surgical procedure from a dog attack not evidence? Assuming its the same dog owner, why were they still allowed to keep dogs? And why hasn't anyone been arrested yet in the case that happened yesterday?

All brilliant points and it's disgusting this dog was not removed and dealt with at the time. But this is not the fault of your responsible dog owners. I do not want this to happen and have dangerous dogs allowed to roam around unchecked. My nans dog was on lead and attacked by an Akita. Nearly lost her. This dog had escaped a back yard it never left. Those people need dealing with, as does the dog. But me and my dog will not stop these things happening.

Saucery · 16/05/2022 17:28

stuntbubbles · 16/05/2022 17:23

Every time I think I’ve encountered Peak Insane Dog-Owner, someone comes along with something as deliciously batshit as “I would report people who want dogs on leads to the park authority”. Please do! Bet they could do with a lol.

Now now, try not to misrepresent what people say so as to appear rational.

If someone came up to me minding my own business, in a public place, making unreasonable demands, I’d think they were very odd indeed. I’d be concerned they would turn that oddness in the direction of someone less likely to walk away or tell them to Fuck Off. So yes, if it was a monitored public place I would tell the managing body of that place that some nutter was marching about telling people what to do. Smile

I know it’s difficult for dog haters to understand that dog owners have rights, but erm…..we do. So dog haters need to suck it up, I’m afraid.

carefullycourageous · 16/05/2022 17:29

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 17:23

Did you miss the 'false one at that' part of my post? Smile

No, I didn't miss it, I was just reiterating that dogs should be on leads. I was answering someone else.

NamechangeFML · 16/05/2022 17:30

People should be made to pay for classes (much like driving, ) before getting a dog and assessed.

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 17:31

carefullycourageous · 16/05/2022 17:29

No, I didn't miss it, I was just reiterating that dogs should be on leads. I was answering someone else.

Nah.. they shouldn't.

Saucery · 16/05/2022 17:33

NamechangeFML · 16/05/2022 17:30

People should be made to pay for classes (much like driving, ) before getting a dog and assessed.

How would you do that? Hand them a range of dogs from “elderly Poodle” to “aloof security-trained Malinois” and see how they get on?

Saucery · 16/05/2022 17:35

Decent breeders do assess potential owners, so no need to reinvent the wheel here. Just stop all the greeders and pedlars of bizarre crosses from selling to anyone and everyone who has the cash.

stuntbubbles · 16/05/2022 17:36

Now, now, I stand by my assertion that reporting someone to the park authorities or considering them a dangerous “nutter” because they think your dog should be on a lead is equally nutty. In the vast vast majority of public spaces, there’s really no need for dogs to be off lead. You can bang on about “oh, the dog needs it” all you like, but humans trump dogs and as long as there are out-of-control dogs, all dogs should be on lead. Take it up with the bad dog owners, not the dog haters. And leave the poor park authorities alone.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 16/05/2022 17:39

ItsDinah · 16/05/2022 11:58

Dog killings in UK are now running on level with mass shootings in USA. There have been at least 5 this year. US has a strong pro gun lobby and UK a strong pro dog lobby. I support a simple annual licensing system. It would not restrict dog ownership in any way. It would not be compulsory except if you wanted to take a dog off your own property. If you want to take a dog off your own property,you would need to get an annual licence. The licence would be for you and any dogs. You would need to take annual tests showing you can control the dog - i.e. it responds to walk ,heel,sit, and stay and you remain in control despite sudden loud noises and triggers like other dogs, cyclists,children etc. The licence fee should cover the costs of running the system. This should gradually deter many irresponsible dog-owners.

I reckon the dog licence would need to be about £1000 to pay for all this and associated enforcement.

daimbarsatemydogsbone · 16/05/2022 17:41

Also we'd be fucked - our rescue dog never goes anywhere in public off his lead - because he's not trained to walk to heel etc and he is quite old. So I would fail the "test".

AllThingsServeTheBeam · 16/05/2022 17:41

stuntbubbles · 16/05/2022 17:36

Now, now, I stand by my assertion that reporting someone to the park authorities or considering them a dangerous “nutter” because they think your dog should be on a lead is equally nutty. In the vast vast majority of public spaces, there’s really no need for dogs to be off lead. You can bang on about “oh, the dog needs it” all you like, but humans trump dogs and as long as there are out-of-control dogs, all dogs should be on lead. Take it up with the bad dog owners, not the dog haters. And leave the poor park authorities alone.

And until the law changes (which it won't, at least in my dogs lifetime) I am quite within my right to completely ignore your views and wave as I walk by you all the other frothers, frothing because I am playing ball with my dog.

Saucery · 16/05/2022 17:44

stuntbubbles · 16/05/2022 17:36

Now, now, I stand by my assertion that reporting someone to the park authorities or considering them a dangerous “nutter” because they think your dog should be on a lead is equally nutty. In the vast vast majority of public spaces, there’s really no need for dogs to be off lead. You can bang on about “oh, the dog needs it” all you like, but humans trump dogs and as long as there are out-of-control dogs, all dogs should be on lead. Take it up with the bad dog owners, not the dog haters. And leave the poor park authorities alone.

I’ll try once more before conceding you are deliberately misunderstanding. I’ll even try a broader example.

I am in a park. I am breaking no laws, local or national.
Someone comes over to me and demands I do something that I do not have to do.
Absolute loon. Who knows what else they might start demanding, or who they might attack next? Shock

But if you want to stomp about telling people what to do when they are breaking no laws then go ahead.

As an aside, I was once chatting to a park ranger about their tricky job of balancing all the needs of different park users. There was a group of dog owners with BogeyDog Du Jour breeds who used to use the park very early in the morning so they could avoid precisely the sort of anti-dog frothing displayed on this thread. The ranger politely told the complainer they had no grounds for complaint and a description of the complainer was circulated in the office in case of further trouble from them.

You simply cannot demand people do things just because you personally want them to do those things. You’ll just have to live with that, I’m afraid.

KittyWithoutAName · 16/05/2022 17:45

Many people are of the mind that all dogs off leash in public spaces are out of control

The dogs I see calmy plodding alongside their owners down the street in London, who sit or lie placidly and wait for their owners when they go inside a shop, seem very in control to me. But then, I don't think a busy London street would be the place to have an unleashed dog, if they weren't well trained, and I haven't seen one that acts like it needs to be leashed. Yet.