To wonder why he keeps me hanging

[Cloudnine1]

Hi

I have been seeing a man for a little while. We get on well and have had some nice dates too. He lives very near me so it’s easy just to meet for a little walk or chat. He said yesterday that we could meet up but when it got to it he said he would come and see me if he could. Which is fine but then he just stops replying and doesn’t let me know. He does this a few times. Aibu to wonder why he doesn’t just tell me either way?

Yes I agree with this

This, absolutely.

I don't think it's overly melodramatic to suggest that even at this early stage, this chap is seeing how much control/inconvenience you'll put up with. It's a massive red flag.

Men are quite simple creatures. If they’re into you, they will let you know and definitely won’t treat you like this. Men only leave you questioning things if they’re not that into you and/or are seeing other people.

Because you’re an option. Throw him back OP, you’re on a hiding to nothing with this one