Just the title really. She just made me feel like crap when I went to pick up DS from her home. She had her friends around for tea and her and them were looking me up and down judging me. One was blatantly just staring at me open mouthed. I had no make up on and just jeans and a top as I was cleaning all day. I really feel down and upset they way she judges me. I was a Uk size 6 when I got married but in her words I was fat as my hips and breast were “huge”. I’m a size 12/14 now so you can imagine the stares and comments I get.
not to drip feed she’s Indian, in her 70’s and thinks her son is the best guy in the world and thinks my only role was to give birth to her grandkids and I can now happily disappear to leave her to raise my kids. I don’t think I can put it any better than I did this morning so please read my post on the thread “why are you on mumsnet in the small hours”: I’ve copied abs pasted my response to the thread below the link. www.mumsnet.com/talk/_chat/4547831-why-are-you-on-mumsnet-in-the-small-hours
Newhome121 · 12/05/2022 02:17
feeling anxious about finding a house to move into. Feeling anxious about everything else too. Just dreading tomorrow (well today now it’s 2:13am England), seeing MIL. Haven’t seen her for 2 blessed weeks. She takes care of my son when I worked (her choice completely). I left work and everyday she cries to DH she misses her 1:1 time with ds. She keeps asking me when I’m planning to go to work! I keep feeling guilty as DH keeps telling me his parents are lonely and ds keeps them busy so today I’m dropping him off there. I’ve loved spending last week and this week with my baby. I just wish I didn’t feel guilty spending time with him. DH keeps saying his mum was crying on the phone.
sorry for long rant lol!