Backstory: dog needed vets treatment (emergency and regular vets). BF paid the vets fees, I’m claiming back on insurance. I pay the insurance premiums so am sorting all the forms out.
I’ve said if he’s struggling with bills/is out of pocket I can borrow money from my parents to pay him back while I’m waiting for the insurance claim to go through. He’s refused this and said he’s fine to pay.
I’ve done all I can to get the claims sorted quickly, have sent forms from our vets out but been struggling with getting the right info from the emergency vets. I’ve phoned to ask them to send me the forms, driven down to hand in forms, had an email back with another form they’ve sent which is the wrong type of claim so trying to phone them again to get it sorted. Basically can’t do any more than I have to sort it all out.
The insurance company themselves are running slowly, I guess with COVID and having reduced capacity. It’s saying up to 4 weeks rather than the normal 10 days. Again I’ve offered to repay the money to BF before then so he’s not waiting too long, and have been refused.
He keeps bringing up the fact that he’s paid all this money, is waiting for it back, has bills he still needs to pay etc.
I’ve taken to just staying quiet when he starts saying this because I’ve offered twice, he’s seen me trying to sort the forms out so not sure what else I’m supposed to fo be doing?
It’s starting to feel like it’s something he’s holding over me and I can’t understand why? We live together so all bills are ‘our’ bills, equal responsibility and he’s knows I’d cover extra if needed.