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NHS Refuses to Offer Surgery

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AchatAVendre · 09/05/2022 14:50

Wondering what people's thoughts are on this. My NHS healthcare trust is point blank refusing to offer me surgery for a condition that is normally fixed by surgery that almost everyone agrees that all the clinical signs are present for. They want to "do nothing". The problem is causing issues and pain and there is no way forwards from this opinion. I have reached the end point with my healthcare trust.

I have asked to be referred through patient choices for a second opinion but the issue is now causing so much pain and physical damage that I'll probably end up paying for surgery privately because its taken so long to get to this stage. Around £6k. I can afford it, but obviously I'd rather not take 6k out of my savings for something that just about anyone else would get surgery for. I should also point out that I'm not a smoker and not overweight, and even my GP surgery can't understand it. But no-one is doing anything about it. My GP is quite frustrated but can't really do anything. I had a private consultation and the surgeon said that the surgery in my case has a 99% success rate and he can't understand why I wasn't offered it by the NHS. It affects my mobility and therefore my ability to work. Yes, I will complain to the Ombudsman but realistically it will be many months before they even look at my case, never mind do anything about it.

What on earth do you do in practical terms if your NHS healthcare trust simply refuses to operate? I do think its probably a bit sexist as it appears that statistically men are more likely to get this (non-sex related) surgery than women in my trust and some of the written responses I have had display quite a bias and stereotypical thinking about women and at a couple of points, delve into the realms of fiction in inventing reasons for the issue (it occurred due to a an accident, they wrongly claim its because I'm peri-menopausal and I should just accept fractures and complications arising from them).

OP posts:
AchatAVendre · 11/05/2022 16:28

OverCCCs · 11/05/2022 16:08

Are you in generally good health otherwise OP? Not very overweight or with other underlying conditions that would make surgery be considered too risky by some experts?

I'm athletic, fit, not overweight, have never smoked and don't drink alcohol (don't like it, not even wine). I don't have any underlying conditions or take any medication.

OP posts:
worriedaboutmoney2022 · 11/05/2022 18:14

What type of surgery is it for?

Mindymomo · 11/05/2022 18:39

£6,000 seems excessive who gave you this price. My Son has had 3 knee operations totalling £15,000, 2 ACL repairs and one to take out a staple which had come loose, which was a day case and was a quick operation costing £850, although this was a couple of years ago.

Untitledsquatboulder · 14/12/2022 07:39

worriedaboutmoney2022 · 11/05/2022 18:14

What type of surgery is it for?

Read the thread or, if that's too much trouble, go yo the OP and choose "See all" from

Untitledsquatboulder · 14/12/2022 07:41

...select "See all" from the bottom right hand corner to bring up the OPs posts.

WeepingSomnambulist · 14/12/2022 07:50

@Untitledsquatboulder

This thread is from Mayand hasnt been updated since May.

Why are you resurrecting it, and why are you resurrecting it just to tell someone off for not reading all OP's posts? Maybe if you read all of OP's posts, you'd have noticed the date.

LINDAHOAD · 27/10/2023 17:27

it should not matter if the nhs has pressures or there are other people with different needs - you have paid into the scheme and are entitled to treatment - once we start the selection process it is wrong, everyones issues and medical problems are problems which they want treated

testedorgan · 27/10/2023 17:34

I had surgery in Turkey, the hospital I was in was state-of-the-art, exceptionally clean, and well-staffed. Surgeon spoke perfect English, although not many of the nurses did.

hattie43 · 27/10/2023 18:00

It's only £6k. Get it done and get on with your life .

Pleasehelpmycat1 · 27/10/2023 19:22

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