I could do with some perspective on this please as I’m slightly baffled by it but am wondering if it’s me who’s in the wrong or DH?
DH will start small jobs around the house such as emptying the bins but then not actually putting them back or half emptying the dishwasher but putting the items on the kitchen side rather than away. He then gets annoyed when I don’t finish these jobs, my stand on it is that I’ve always got my own bits and pieces I’m doing such as sorting out the dcs uniform for example or cooking a meal and don’t need to be picking up half finished jobs that DH has started too!
To clarify he doesn’t do half a job and then sit doing nothing expecting me to finish it, he often flits onto something new.
He also has a habit of starting fairly large jobs on the spur of the moment which he’ll then expect me to help him with, I find it all quite stressful sometimes but is it me being unreasonable or DH? Thanks