How would you feel about this?

[SunnySundayMornings]

New here and lookinng for opinions please.

Yesterday I was helping my DH get back into his online banking after he repeatedly put in the wrong access code, once I had finally sorted the problem and managed to get him back into his current account outgoings were listed as I passed him his phone back i noticed a payment for stripnet.com. I didn't say anything at the time but later on in the afternoon I googled it and it is a live sex cam website. So he is obviously paying to watch women on web cams.

I actually felt quite sick angry and betrayed and I am unsure why exactly because I know he watches porn but this just felt wrong.

AIBU to think this is worse than watching porn or is it the same?

Also both of his son's have girlfriend's and he has always always drummed into both of them that they should be respectful to their girlfriend's and treat them properly and he's also had the porn isn't real life talk with them which I think at their ages is an important message to get across to them but that has come from him not from me.

It is just difficult to see him in this new light after being together for so long with no trust issues. Surely if he was a pervert he couldn't of kept his pretence going this long without slipping up.

It is wrong. A husband watching porn is wrong and a husband paying for online live porn is also wrong. It's a breach of your trust and is disrespectful. Not everyone will agree with me but I believe in the sanctity of marriage and the vows.

You need to address it with him, tell him you know, give him the opportunity to talk and be honest with him how it has made you feel. Then move forward.

I'd say I'm reasonably easy going and I think I'd still have to break up over that sorry.
It would be just too gross for me to get over 😪
I'm so sorry, sometimes I really do hate men

He’s a liar and a hypocrite then. Do as I say, not as I do.

Quite happy for other young women to be exploited to aid his orgasm but not anybody he knows