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Question to smokers - the cost of your habit?

81 replies

forinborin · 06/05/2022 22:32

Posting for traffic mainly (and, strangely, there does not seem to be a dedicated forum for unhealthy living and bad habits where to ask Grin).

I am helping someone new to the UK with budgeting / finance optimisation. They are a (quite heavy) smoker, and after we went through their April expenses / receipts, it looks like just the cost of cigarettes for the month was over £500. Bought from a usual corner shop, nothing fancy.

I have zero experience with smoking myself, soI was completely shocked at the cost. Is there a way to reduce this bill in any way? What do experienced smokers do, do they bulk buy? Are there any special suppliers to buy from? Do e-cigarettes turn out cheaper?

Sorry for the stupid question!

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Kingharoldshairstyle · 07/05/2022 08:37

My friend moved to roll ups, she’s a little machine that rolls them for her and a case. She smokes over twenty a day too and each day she sits and rolls up about twenty or so and puts them in her case, then just smokes normally the rest of the day. Cost has went from about 450 a month to about 100.

I stopped a couple of weeks ago, it is hard I won’t lie, but the Nicorette mist really works for me. A couple of squirts in the side of my mouth and the craving is gone in about twenty seconds, and already I am using it less.

there are so many replacement products now available, from patches, to mints to gum, to inhalators,vapes etc that it really does ease the transition. The worst part is actually breaking the habit itself.

id see if they would be willing to try, if not then move to roll ups and get them a little machine and a cigarette case to put them in.

forinborin · 07/05/2022 08:44

Wallywobbles · 07/05/2022 08:25

Are they aware of what they are costing you? Or are you hiding it.

I am not hiding, but thinking how to raise this sensitively. They don't have a reference frame yet for how much things cost vs income. I remember a shock a couple of years ago when I realised that my normal weekly shop for one in Switzerland was around £200 when converted into sterling. Was on a three-week project there and seriously considered stopping eating Grin

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forinborin · 07/05/2022 08:51

Snugglepumpkin · 07/05/2022 08:31

If they don't want to vape & don't like rolling their own.

JPS make your own.

You need a machine (it will last years)
www.amazon.co.uk/Make-Your-Own-Cigarette-Maker/dp/B00797W21C/ref=pd_lpo_1?pd_rd_i=B00797W21C&psc=1

Cigarette tubes - this is 1000 which is 10 boxes of 100, you can buy in smaller quantities but a heavy smoker would go through them fast enough.
www.amazon.co.uk/MAKE-YOUR-CIGARETTE-TUBE-1000/dp/B006H9D8B6

A tub of tobacco - makes approx 80-100 cigarettes.
groceries.asda.com/product/jps/players-jps-volume-tobacco/910002995697

Link to show you what the stuff looks like.
Tubs of tobacco available in most supermarkets, packets of the cigarette tubes only sometimes available (individual packs not a 10 pack like the link) in supermarkets & usually not for home delivery, machine very rarely available in supermarkets but probably a pound or two cheaper if you shop around.

Works out about half price compared to packets of cigarettes, but look like them & have the filters already in the tubes.
Can be less depending on how much tobacco you pack in the tube.
Doesn't need to be really densely packed.

You'd also need a cigarette packet to put them in - you can just reuse one from purchased cigarettes or buy a case.

Thank you very much, very comprehensive!

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Belledan1 · 07/05/2022 08:54

I was shocked when behind someone in ashop and had milk and cashier said a 1.00 then person asked for fags and it came to 11.00.

AlwaysLatte · 07/05/2022 09:00

Maybe try to get across to them the real cost of smoking. My father just died of that (he smoked 20+ a day).

BorisJohnsonsHair · 07/05/2022 09:06

I gave up 20 years ago. Worked out how much money I would have spent had I carried on ... £71,000!!!

When I gave up it was approximately £5 a pack, now it's more like £15, so I averaged it out at £9 a pack. It's hideously expensive.

EmeraldShamrock1 · 07/05/2022 09:09

It is not a habit it is a serious addiction that has trapped millions of people.

Ex heroin addiction and ex alcoholics claim cigarettes were the hardest thing to abstain from .

Spidey66 · 07/05/2022 09:37

I used to smoke about 30 a day. I've stopped loads of times but atm am on them, but have managed to get a pack of 20 last 3 days, so it's about £100 pm. I know, I know.....I will give up! I gave up from Feb till December last year, even stayed off when I broke my shoulder in September and was in pain and stressed out to the max. Fuck knows why I started again, I'm not happy at all with myself.

£500 a month must be a serious habit, about 40 a day, which is a hell of a lot.

forinborin · 07/05/2022 09:45

AlwaysLatte · 07/05/2022 09:00

Maybe try to get across to them the real cost of smoking. My father just died of that (he smoked 20+ a day).

It is a lost cause unfortunately, I've been trying for 20+ years to talk sense, doesn't matter. And they've been through cancer and chemo/radiotherapy, made a recovery that was a 1 in 1000 chance outcome statistically, and still no effect. I resigned myself now that there's nothing that can be done there, it is damage limitation now (including financial).

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Topseyt123 · 07/05/2022 11:03

CheapFoodShits · 07/05/2022 07:53

I used to smoke 30 a day. Based on the £11 a pack they cost when I quit, I would be spending £495 a month.
I switched to vaping last year and usually spend £50 in a 6 week period.
At the end of the day, if they can't afford to smoke, they can't afford it. It's not your job to pay for someone's habit.

That is exactly my point, and the reason I would be steering towards a vape, although I know just how stubborn and defensive smokers can be. I have exactly the same problem with my mother and there is no chance she will ever stop.

It is a problem for me because I have medical conditions which are exacerbated by it including some scarring from previous bouts of pneumonia. I currently cannot even visit my mother's house because I have a lung infection myself at the moment and just can't take the smoking. I definitely could not tolerate it in my own home.

I appreciate it is a problem for OP, as the person she is taking care of has always smoked and can't just suddenly stop or even drastically reduce. It is still also a problem for any non-smokers who are trying to look after them, not just through smoke inhalation, but potentially financially too.

There isn't an ideal answer. It is an addiction.

Lonelycrab · 07/05/2022 11:09

30g pouch of baccy lasts me exactly 4 days, they’re £15 each. So around £125 a month including rizla.

I’m getting to the point where I really need to stop, but I’m going through a pretty stressful time right now and my willpower isn’t the best. I tried vaping but it really didn’t agree with me- most awful stabbing pains after a week or so.

Mydogisagentleman · 07/05/2022 11:19

I smoke. I love smoking. I have smoked since I was 12.
I do spend around £300 a month on cigs, but love flying with Ryanair. £40 for 200 Marlboro.
pour DD smokes rollies and vapes. She spends about £20 a month on baccy products.

MayorDusty · 07/05/2022 11:25

I'm a vaper at the mom but tobacco is my Achilles heel. I can stop, do stop (sometimes for years) but never fall out with it or stop wanting it. I don't currently smoke because my elderly Dad hates it, last smoked in December and then I paid £11 for 50g which lasted me a month because I can tight roll (prison rollies according to Dad) so it's not always as expensive as people think.
If you get to know the right place for snide you can get decent quality and prices.

tttigress · 07/05/2022 11:38

forinborin · 07/05/2022 08:44

I am not hiding, but thinking how to raise this sensitively. They don't have a reference frame yet for how much things cost vs income. I remember a shock a couple of years ago when I realised that my normal weekly shop for one in Switzerland was around £200 when converted into sterling. Was on a three-week project there and seriously considered stopping eating Grin

One thing that are actually cheaper in Switzerland are cigarettes!

Maybe you could switch them to roll ups or vaping in the short/medium term?

Also, maybe some connections from the community in question might know shops that sell under the counter.

maddiemookins16mum · 07/05/2022 11:58

I smoke. On average - 2 before work, one at lunchtime, 3 between finishing work and bedtime. Sometimes I don’t smoke all 6 a day, sometimes I go over my ‘allowance’.
i know that sounds a bit regimented but I buy 40 a week on a Saturday (roughly £27) and never need to top up.
to be fair, I should just give up.

itssquidstella · 07/05/2022 12:00

I smoked at uni and in my early twenties. Roll ups all the way - despite the fact the cost of even rolling tobacco has increased loads since I stopped, it's still significantly cheaper than smoking straights (and I also hated the taste of normal cigarettes).

CPL593H · 07/05/2022 12:16

Realistically, vaping sounds like the way to go. I smoked from age 15-49, 40 a day for most of that time and have not had or wanted a cig since vaping, 10 years now. Agree with other posters that it evens out to approx £30 a month with kit and liquid, for me at least.

For a current heavy smoker, go for 1.8 nicotine liquid, it can be reduced over time.

LowlandLucky · 07/05/2022 12:21

Crikey just looked and 400 Mayfair is £270, DH and i when we smoked would have gone through over 700 in a week, that would now cost us about £500 a week ! thank god we gave up.

LakieLady · 07/05/2022 12:23

I smoke 6-8 a day, and they're £10.40 for 20, so just over £20 pw/£1k pa.

I'm cutting down by using nicotine lozenges, but may give the mist a try. I didn't get on with vaping, for some reason.

nearlyspringyay · 07/05/2022 12:26

You must be mad to fund £500 a month on someone else's fags.

forinborin · 07/05/2022 12:56

nearlyspringyay · 07/05/2022 12:26

You must be mad to fund £500 a month on someone else's fags.

That's why I am asking what are the workarounds to make it cheaper. £500 won't lead to bankruptcy, but I could do with it being halved or thereabouts.

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MargosKaftan · 07/05/2022 13:36

If they are a mentally competent 60-something, then don't try to find the solution yourself. Say that the difference in price for cigarettes in the UK is x much (perhaps put it in the currency they are used to). Say that few people smoke that much in the UK because of the cost. What do they think ?

forinborin · 07/05/2022 14:31

MargosKaftan · 07/05/2022 13:36

If they are a mentally competent 60-something, then don't try to find the solution yourself. Say that the difference in price for cigarettes in the UK is x much (perhaps put it in the currency they are used to). Say that few people smoke that much in the UK because of the cost. What do they think ?

Unfortunately, they are not fully competent in the usual sense. Nothing like a disability, but have never lived independently / self-sufficiently or had to manage budgets, or earn own money. But that's another story.

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TrickyD · 07/05/2022 15:51

I am reminded of when my late DB was staying with us. He became ill. We called the doctor (this was obviously a fair few years ago when home visits happened).
Doctor asked how many cigarettes he smoked a day.
DB: ”Five or six”
Doctor: “That’s not many”
DB: “I meant packets”.

Skinnydogz · 07/05/2022 16:03

Get them a vape. Much healthier and much cheaper. 88vape brand from Poundland is fantastic and 1 quid a bottle.