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Is this rude or am I overthinking?

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Throwthevodks · 05/05/2022 20:47

Used to be friends with a group of girls from school up until mid 20s, but I was the least popular in the group, sometimes left out and I felt like shit afterwards each time we met. Reached out to the main woman in the group to say how I felt and it was kind of a “sorry you feel like that” - so I left the group and have many lovely friends in my life now.

Today I happened to go meet my mum for a coffee and as we got back to the car I stopped to look in my bag for my keys when I heard someone shout “Oi oi “my name” and I turned and it was the main woman of the group smirking at me (it was obvious smirk) and walk by me.

I just don’t get why she shouted to me when she had no intention of stopping to talk or even to say “nice to see you, sorry I’m in a rush!” even after 5/6 years of not having seen each other. When she could have just walked by, as I never even saw her as I had my back to her.

Sorry I know it likely sounds pathetic, but that group were awful to me and I felt I was kept around to make them feel better.

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Motnight · 05/05/2022 20:52

Fuck her, Op. She must be living a sad life to act like that.

iheartmybeachhut · 05/05/2022 20:52

Totally horrible but not relevant to your life now, you've moved on to better things they are probably still nasty.

cigarettesNalcohol · 05/05/2022 20:56

Rude. Forget and move on. People like this aren't worth your fingers typing about them.

StoneofDestiny · 05/05/2022 20:57

She hasn't matured and is clearly one pathetic human specimen.

MissusMaisel · 05/05/2022 20:59

You interpreted as a smirk because of how you feel about her, it could just as easily be a smile.

"We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are"

Throwthevodks · 05/05/2022 21:29

MissusMaisel · 05/05/2022 20:59

You interpreted as a smirk because of how you feel about her, it could just as easily be a smile.

"We don't see things as they are, we see things as we are"

It was definitely a smirk, I saw it before I even recognised who she was - her hair was scrapped back, no makeup and glasses etc so I didn’t instantly recognise her.

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