Used to be friends with a group of girls from school up until mid 20s, but I was the least popular in the group, sometimes left out and I felt like shit afterwards each time we met. Reached out to the main woman in the group to say how I felt and it was kind of a “sorry you feel like that” - so I left the group and have many lovely friends in my life now.
Today I happened to go meet my mum for a coffee and as we got back to the car I stopped to look in my bag for my keys when I heard someone shout “Oi oi “my name” and I turned and it was the main woman of the group smirking at me (it was obvious smirk) and walk by me.
I just don’t get why she shouted to me when she had no intention of stopping to talk or even to say “nice to see you, sorry I’m in a rush!” even after 5/6 years of not having seen each other. When she could have just walked by, as I never even saw her as I had my back to her.
Sorry I know it likely sounds pathetic, but that group were awful to me and I felt I was kept around to make them feel better.