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Children in classroom early

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DogsAndGin · 03/05/2022 17:50

Teacher here! My class come in at 8:40am. However, two staff members have children at the school, and send them to my classroom at 8:15 (one is an office lady whose daughter is in my class, and the other is a TA in my classroom, and her child is not in my class or year group).

I really don’t want responsibility for other people’s children before my working hours begin, what if something happened? I feel like they’re taking me for some kind of free before school club.

The TA sometimes stays with her child, but other times says, ‘you stay here and Mrs Dogsandgin will give you a job’. Then I have to find a way to entertain her kid for 25 minutes before I actually start getting paid! She’s done this with previous teachers presumably, without a hitch.

But, even with her remaining in the room with him, having kids in the room changes how I can chat to my teacher pals before we start work. We need to have confidential, blunt, frank and funny conversations and get things off our chest, away from children! I’ve had teachers come in for a chat, see the kids, and turn and walk out. I’m desperate for my pals and my privacy back.

How can I politely request that no children come in before 8:40? Or should I ask the head to communicate it as a policy?

YABU - kids should be able to come into your classroom before you start work

YANBU - you shouldn’t be a free babysitter for your colleagues

OP posts:
mamaduckbone · 04/05/2022 19:57

Absolutely no way! If they are in school before the start of the school day they are their parents' responsibility, not yours.

HappyDays40 · 04/05/2022 20:17

That is bonkers they need to pay for wrap around care such as a childminder or breakfast club like every other parent who works. I'd nip that in the bud.

HappyDays40 · 04/05/2022 20:20

Could you shut he classroom door and as they arrive tell them breezing that school hasn't started yet.

Gilmorehill · 04/05/2022 20:21

DogsAndGin · 03/05/2022 18:50

Thank you everyone. To answer some questions:

Although I appreciate the TA comes under my classroom management, I am conscious that the precedent is set across the school, as other teachers have colleague’s kids in their rooms, too.

I can’t lock my TA out of her classroom.

No, we’ve only just started to work together.

It’s not really a case of her dropping her kid off in my room, or that she stays and looks after him! It’s both! The TA pops in and out from about 8:15 chatting to her pals in the corridor etc. Her kid is often in my room before I have even come in in the morning - sometimes with her, sometimes not. I have no idea why she gets in so early, she doesn’t do any work in that time.

Breakfast club is external, and fee paying.

@LowlandLucky I’m aware ‘kids’ is unprofessional thanks. This is mumsnet.

That would drive me insane. She clearly doesn’t appreciate how important that time is for you. She sounds quite unprofessional.

Springsnow22 · 04/05/2022 20:21

Oh no that’s completely unreasonable. I find it irritating enough that some of my classes come in stupidly early from lunch when I’m still trying to set up!

Backtoblack1 · 04/05/2022 20:49

Definitely sounds like the head swerved this one. The TA sounds entitled and hard work. Hope you sort it, this would drive me insane!!!

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