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Anyone want to talk about epilepsy and time travel?

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Epilepsy · 03/05/2022 15:31

Prompted by the trailer for the new Time Traveller's wife series (I love that book) where he says "time travel is a disability not a super power". It has made me think...

I have epilepsy and after a (tonic clinic) seizure I'm either unsure when/where I am, or convinced I am at another place/time in my life - if that makes sense! For example, last time I was convinced I lived in my old house and my DC would be late for nursery if I didn't get up. Said DC are actually at university now  The feelings are absolutely real though, and very detailed - I "see" my old house in my mind eg the book I am reading on my bedside table, the particular lipstick on my bathroom cabinet and for example, a postcard from a friend. (20 years later I wouldn't have a clue normally when/where my friend had been or what lipstick I was wearing in 2003, so these are genuine memories that are being "thrown up"). It really is like time travel, I'm genuinely in my old house and my DC are really nursery age.

These periods aren't like a dream, or even lucid dreaming, it's different. Sometimes it's frightening, a couple of times I have come round and genuinely not known where I am, or who I live with, I see the bedroom door but have no idea where it leads and what's behind it IYSWIM.

My neurologist has told me about "jamais vu" - the opposite to deja vu, so things that are familiar, appear that they aren't. People can also experience this by saying a word over and over until it's meaningless, or if you stare at your face in the mirror for long enough, it seems unfamiliar.

The most annoying thing is that I actually have a poor working/short term memory due to either the epilepsy or meds, so I can't tell you what I did five minutes ago! I also have big holes in my memories day to day, for example I don't remember big events or things with the DC that they/DH remembers. So it's really strange to go back in time like that to certain things so clearly. Maybe it is as close to time travel as you can get...mentally not physically? Brains are so weird....

Does anyone else have anything similar (it's definitely not like having "normal" dreams even realistic ones) or does anyone just find it interesting to think about?

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Epilepsy · 04/05/2022 16:15

And YY to the not knowing you've had a seizure thing! Split lips and black eyes are kind of a giveaway (plus that post ictal headache @PermanentlyTired03 - is your user name related?!) I also dislike having to have my bedroom child proofed now my DC are grown up!

That's another thing DH has to deal with though, as well as worrying about me, people in RL assume he is behind the split lips etc.

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Epilepsy · 04/05/2022 16:30

That must be very hard @motogirl.

I think that was behind my original post (prompted by the time traveller's wife trailerSmile ), I was really struck by the voiceover about time travel being seen as a superpower when it could be a disability?

I can't really articulate what I mean.

I have DC with SN too and it's a bit similar to my burning hatred dislike of cliches like God only gives special children to special parents or it's amazing how you cope or that fucking awful Holland poem.
I realise though that some people like that poem and different strokes for different folks etc.

There is something I'm trying to say but I can't explain it well! Or even grasp it myself Confused

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