To not like my DH añd not know what to do about it

[NormandyDo]

I dont like my DH anymore. There, I've said it. I think I have been feeling like this for awhile but ignored my feelings. I also don't find him attractive anymore. I find him increasingly irritating and hate being in the same room as him.

Is this a phase, do you think? It's just sort of happened very very slowly over the years. We hardly spend anytime together and that too sort of happened over the years.

ive been married for 8 years and I think whenever we’ve been through bad times where we start to resent each other or not get on it’s because of a communication breakdown and not putting each other first. Have you tried making some time for a date night each week? Just a night where you do something together that you both enjoy? Perhaps doing something together you enjoyed when you were more in love might spark the attraction.
you’re not being unreasonable to feel this way and if you want to leave then of course do. But I perhaps think you could both work
together a bit more before throwing in the towel.
why don’t you spend any time together?

If it's happened slowly over the years, it seems very unlikely that it's a phase. It sounds as though your relationship may have run its course.

Divorce, I think it what situations like those calls for.

Unless you would like to work on it?