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Did your child ever outgrow their eczema?

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Hope54321 · 30/04/2022 22:50

Posting here for traffic and looking for some hope.

My 15 month old has eczema all over the except for his hands.

We are currently managing the eczema with protopic and steroids. We also use oilatum bath additive and aveeno dermexa and hydromol for moisturising.

He has a long list of allergies which I have also excluded from my own diet as I am breastfeeding.

We have a food diary and his eczema seems to flare when he consumes fruits.

He wears 100% cotton and scratch sleeves at night.

We wash with surecare and on 60 to kill any dust mites.

He has antihistamine when the itching is too bad.

We are doing everything we can to manage his severe eczema.

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Saracen · 01/05/2022 09:08

My eczema was much better by the time I was ten, and cleared up completely when I moved to a humid climate at 20. Since then, I've had flare-ups in tiny patches in various areas about once every ten years, only lasting a couple of months at a time. The most recent time, I realised the Aveeno cream was actually making it worse - it cleared up very rapidly when I switched to olive oil.

One thing which has sometimes helped me break the scratching cycle is ice. I doubt that it's recommended, but it numbed my skin for just long enough that I could distract myself.

Good luck to your little one!

TitoMojito · 01/05/2022 09:14

I was the child with eczema and unfortunately no, I've never grown out of it.

17CherryTreeLane · 01/05/2022 09:16

My DS had it terribly as a baby. We had to wet wrap him at night, it was awful. Then we discovered he's allergic to milk, eggs, nuts, peas and pulses and sesame. He avoids all those foods and has really beautiful skin. In fact someone commented on it just yesterday Smile

Natsku · 01/05/2022 09:19

My daughter had it, mostly on her face with a bit on her legs (later on it came back on one leg but was a different kind of eczema and it went away after again after about a year). She had some allergies (dairy, eggs, and citric acid from fruits aggravated it a lot) so cutting those out helped a lot and eventually she outgrew both the allergies and the eczema.

Grumpybutfunny · 01/05/2022 09:25

I largely did as I got older, will occasionally get it now as an allergic reaction to a new cream etc or post viral. Doesn't really impact my life and clears up in a few days

Greengagesnfennel · 01/05/2022 09:32

Yes. DS had bad eczema as a baby. All over his body and had to have wraps at night and little gloves. Ton of creams and things from hospital. By toddler age was starting to just be occasional flaring rashes and an bad rash reaction to some fruit when it touched his skin (ie flared up around his mouth). By starting school almost all gone. Now hulking teenager and no eczema at all. Fruit allergy gone too.

Gloxinia · 01/05/2022 09:33

I outgrew baby eczema and didn't have it as a child. I did develop it again in my 20s, tends to be located in a small area which moves around and is manageable

Schulte · 01/05/2022 09:41

DD had bad eczema until she was about 3, now her skin is fine but she has asthma and that’s worse in many ways. Aveeno cream was a revelation for us, nothing else had worked.

EmilyBolton · 01/05/2022 10:13

i outgrew mine but then came back post menopause….but sadly my DS has never got better. I’m interested that so many posters here say that children did out grow it. That should be good news for you ..but just bear in mind it doesn’t always happen, so work on habits that will last a lifetime.

my DS is now 28 so it is a loooong time since I was responsible for managing it, he stopped me applying his creams etc to it when in his early teens which is to be expected , so it’s been in his hands since then . About 4 months ago he had a flare up on his face (unfortunately a common place that he gets it, as well as creases in skin) and it was so bad and painful he had to take a week off work. Back to his dermatologist- she prescribed him a new cream which has only just been made available in uk, it seems to have got on top of latest flare up but it’s early days. There are a number of new and novel clinical trials ongoing looking at new pathways of causes …lots of research as big bucks for pharmaceutical companies if they find something that cures it. Areas such as sex hormone in balances, the role of interleukin etc. so there’s a lot of hope out there. So one thing you can do is find a good dermatologist- save up for private consultations if needed later on.

my advise is to avoid steroid cream if you can. Avoid on the face especially- which is what’s advised anyway for normal flare ups . My DS face was never the same once a dermatologist prescribed the lower dose facial steroid cream for a really bad flare up- the withdrawal is horrible and skin after that always seemed far more susceptible to it.

Also stop unnecessary baths , hair washing or showers. Do a bottom wash whilst in nappies but otherwise don’t wash body unless it is actually dirty.
I’d think about a water softener system if living in hard water area. My son spent infancy and childhood in hard water area- eczema was bad. From 14 to 21 in softer water areas..much better…then since 21 back to very hard water and can be very bad. The eczema society is running research into the link. It was pointed out to me when he was 9 by a dermatologist who told me to stop with showers/baths unless he really needed it whilst we lived in that area with hard water.

His eczema always gets better in summer. Certainly sunshine levels help ( again known that uv light helps) but you obviously need to balance with sun protection which by default negates the benefit- so limit it to when uv level not at peak ( eg early morning/evenings) and time limit before you slap ,on the high factor sun screens.

Plus dry air makes it worse…so central heating especially at night is a real trigger. Don’t overly humidify but try to ventilate rooms to keep humidity up.

when they get a flare up think about the itching and how to manage that. My son used to get nightmares about insects crawling over him - it was the itch at night. Eventually we’d fairly routinely dose him with antihistamines at night during bad episodes just so he’d get a good nights sleep. It also helps to break the “itch-scratch” cycle which is important to understand.

whilst some eczema may be related to food allergies , it is not proven scientifically to be a cause in most cases. More that eczema is associated with hyper allergenic people…including asthma and food allergies. My DS gave up dairy and most meat in last 5 years as per trendy young things…made not a jot of difference

it is known that it get worse with stress..but imhe with my son I think that it’s because he copes less well with the whole itch- scratch cycle when stressed or tired. Rather than stress seeming to actually cause an outbreak.

all these worth thinking about as will help now even if your dc does grow out of it.

I do hope your child grows out of it…it is miserable for the sufferer

fuckwhatshouldido · 01/05/2022 10:21

I had it pretty badly as a child, not all over, mostly arms/legs (especially in the creases) but it was bad enough to split and bleed, etc. I grew out of it and now only have the very occasional flare up when I’m really stressed. DP also had it badly as a kid, he’s still lactose intolerant but the eczema stays under control provided he watches his dairy intake (although also flares up more if he’s really stressed).

I’ve also known several children who had a host of allergies, including CMPA in all cases, which also caused skin problems for them all. All were severe CMPA but all of them were successfully going up the milk ladder by about 3 and the CMPA has either gone or reduced significantly (they’re all school age+ by now) and the skin reactions have reduced accordingly. It’s not a guarantee but it seems to be more common than not to grow out of it.

EmilyBolton · 01/05/2022 10:31

I would also add that be aware that even moisturisers will sting the skin quite painfully when applied. You obviously do need to use them- lots…but I wasn’t aware exactly how painful they can be when applied for first 5 mins or so. Not until my DS could explain…I had no idea when he was a baby and toddler…thought they just didn’t like it..not that it was actually painful 😢. Just bear that in mind as you put it on…
even my adult DS has to literally sit on his hands to prevent him rubbing his skin in agony for the first few minutes after application…you can see the torment he’s going through in his expression…hats off to him that he puts himself through that because he knows he needs to keep applying it 😭

Buzzinwithbez · 01/05/2022 10:47

My son's cleared up after a bout of chicken pox at 11 months old.
The eczema cleared up right along with the spots.

SweetPetrichor · 01/05/2022 10:54

I grew out of it. I do still have very sensitive skin but no rashes.

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