I 'met' someone on Twitter a few years ago, started talking about a mutual interest and really got on, lots of messages most days. We felt like good friends and chatted on the phone once a month or so as well as online messages. Both of us were in relationships, so it wasn't romantic at all, and we never met in person.
After talking for about a year, he just disappeared. Stopped responding to me altogether. I was confused and upset to begin with, but assumed he had his reasons and got on with life.
Then, about 2 months ago, I got a message from him out of the blue saying he was so sorry for the shitty way he treated me and asking how things were. I was surprised but pleased to hear from him. I'm now single, and he said he'd got divorced and was on his own too, and we got a bit more flirty. He said he had always liked me like that, and ended contact because it was too complicated and he was conflicted.
Stupidly, I fell for it, and we have been planning meeting up properly finally (he's in Scotland, I'm on the south coast of England). Then since Monday, he's just disappeared again. Same as the first time. I feel like such a mug and I don't know what I've done wrong.
What would you do? Send a final message telling him to fuck off? Just ignore and move on? Block?