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People who rattle letterboxes are twats

42 replies

Quackpot · 27/04/2022 13:30

Cannot stand it.
Knock.
Ring the bell.
Don't rattle my fucking letterbox.
So damn irritating.

Am I being unreasonable?

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EmeraldSpo · 27/04/2022 15:29

Assuming you have no doorbell or knocker is why they use the letterbox. What's the alternative? You don't hear the door and miss whoever is there. People are going to use the loudest option to get your attention.
When we lived in a flat we only had the letterbox so that's what was used. Now we've moved we've got a knocker.

YABU, I find it more of a pain knocking someone's door without a bell or knocker.

FromOurHatsToOurFeet · 27/04/2022 15:40

We had this.

Then we got a new letterbox, a draft-proof one, it takes two hands to open and most letters end up squished between the flap and the brushes. You'd need to be Geoff Capes to be able to flap it willy-nilly.

Wexone · 27/04/2022 15:43

As someone who has had to deliver 1,000 forms for the government ( that i had to get proof that they were delivered) recently, the amount of people whos doorbells don't work, who ignores the door bell or the door knocker, who sit in their house and don't answer even though they can see you are there. sometimes i cant hear the doorbell ringing so don't know if its working or not . So i will rattle the letterbox if it gets you to actually answer the door so i can do my job and not stand out in the cold and rain ( most of the time ) like a tool. And don't even get me started on people who have gates but no buzzer, like how do you know if people are at your gates ?

Quackpot · 27/04/2022 15:56

Wow. Wasn't expecting 50/50 😂😂

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Greenpolkadot · 27/04/2022 16:43

I hate the letterbox rattle,,,I could literally run and rip open the door and slap them.
A bell ring or a knock on the glass or even a tap with the knocker.....but a rattle,,,well youv just signed your own death warrant there...

10HailMarys · 27/04/2022 17:08

If someone has a doorbell, I'd assume people should use it. If someone has an actual door-knocker, I'd assume people should use that.

But if they have neither, I can't really see why a rap-rap from your letterbox is any more annoying than a knock-knock from someone's knuckles. It's not something I've ever really thought about but it doesn't bother me in the slightest either way.

My guess is that people who knock on doors a lot for their job probably get to know what people are most likely to hear and go straight for that option to save time.

Cavagirl · 27/04/2022 18:27

YES!!!! 100%!!!!
My absolute fucking nutjob neighbour even has her own, specially aggressive rattle.
What are these letterbox mufflers of which you speak??

CuriousCatfish · 27/04/2022 18:29

I can't say it bothers me. I can't see how it's much different from using a door knocker.

Mangogogogo · 27/04/2022 18:32

Doesn’t bother me at all. Bothers the dogs though and you would be highly likely to lose a finger.
i honestly couldnt get wound up about stuff like this.

i have a brutal knock which probably pisses people off but I have to for my job and now it’s stuck. Am coming to get you!

iklboo · 27/04/2022 18:33

If it's definitely cold callers when I open the door, I silently point to the No Cold Callers sign & close the door again. If I'm feeling less of a cow annoyed I'll politely say no thanks or not interested thanks.

northernsquirrel · 27/04/2022 18:39

Rattling the letterbox...is that a euphemism Grin

Elaine2468 · 27/04/2022 20:18

Friends just walk in? YABU for having your door open. Lock your fucking door!
I don't care what part of the world you live in, it isn't safe.

Conc1 · 27/04/2022 20:44

What does rattling the letterbox mean? I don't get it. You mean knocking the door by using the letterbox? Isn't that normal?

CuriousCatfish · 27/04/2022 20:47

Conc1 · 27/04/2022 20:44

What does rattling the letterbox mean? I don't get it. You mean knocking the door by using the letterbox? Isn't that normal?

It's normal in RL yes.

Pinkpig1 · 27/04/2022 20:51

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 27/04/2022 13:39

I hate people who knock and ring. One or the bloody other! Why both??

Yes!!! Why?? It's so irritating!!

Quackpot · 28/04/2022 09:28

Elaine2468 · 27/04/2022 20:18

Friends just walk in? YABU for having your door open. Lock your fucking door!
I don't care what part of the world you live in, it isn't safe.

🙄

Where do you live that it's unsafe to leave your door open during the day while you're home?
Fuck. You must live in summerhouse 😂

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Dfg15 · 28/04/2022 10:01

Delivery people ring my doorbell, knock the knocker AND rap on the glass one after the other !! Drives me bonkers.

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