Did you know that a simple cut scars or AIBU thick not to know?

[lifewithsomeonespecial]

I am covered in scars from DS.

I wasn't however aware that surface scratches/superficial wounds can scar you? I though you'd have to keep removing the scab eww, or it would need to be a deeper cut?

I look like someone has repeatedly burnt me, according to my neighbour. She asked if I was okay. Embarrassed, I asked what she meant. She pointed to my arms! I explained of course

It's horrible. I have a cheaper version of Bio Oil. It doesn't work, will the real stuff? I couldn't get hold of any so grabbed this

I now have quite a few on my face too

There doesn't seem to be a "rule" about this.

I have a pronounced scar in my leg that is the result of scratching myself with a belt buckle several years ago. At the time it was only a very superficial scratch. I've had much worse "cuts" that haven't scarred.

I also have scarring similar to yours on my arms, which isnthe result of picking spots, so I guess I deserve that and it's less surprising.

What's happening that DS is hurting you so much?

I've been scratched and bitten by the kittens when playing with them that leave little marks that normally disappear within a day, I've no scars. Does your child really gouge you?

When you say 'scars from DS', what exactly do you mean? How is your son scarring you? Or do you mean you caught something from him and the rash has left scars?

Any cut or wound can scar, no matter how shallow, but if the wound was only superficial and you haven't been repeatedly digging at the scabs, they will usually fade over time. I had lots of scars like this from some severe insect bites a few years ago (I'm allergic, and they blistered) and they were very noticeable at first, but they faded completely over a few months. Vitamin E oil is meant to be good for scars to help the skin cells recover.

They don’t look like scars so much as wounds that are still healing. How long have they been there?

Thank you

There's new ones all the time. My arms are actually quite good at the moment, no new wounds but just my face and neck!

DS is 4.5 but he's autistic. It's never out of upset funnily enough, he gets over excited and uses me as a sensory fulfilment

He does it to everyone and he's always happy

Chew toys don't work as a distraction

I get keloid scars and these look similar.

It's where your body over reacts when producing scar tissue.

I would speak to your doctor and perhaps get referred to a dermatologist.

I get steroid injections into my scars but only when they are really bad. There are also some creams for keloid scarring that helps with minor ones.

It depends on your skin. I heal very badly. Takes ages and always scar. My DD has EDS and can take months to heal eg she had her ears pierced and they never healed. GP suggested she remove the studs as they weren’t healed at all 12 months after. He minor op scars are still very much visible 4 years later. She and I both bruise very easily.

Get a blood test.

What for, out of interest?

I do have mild anaemia if that's relevant

They don't look like keloid scars to me. Are they flat or raised, OP?

There are genetic factors that affect how easily you scar, not just how the wound was caused or the type of damage. Scars look red or pink at first because the blood flow is increased to the area to help with the healing process. If they are just flat red scars they should fade eventually, although they may be slightly lighter or darker than the undamaged skin.

I'm assuming you must have scraped your knee or had some other minor injury as a child? Do you have scars from those injuries? If you don't and these scars are flat but just red, they will probably fade within a year.

@chesirecat99 my legs are covered in scars from childhood but I was a notorious picker (my mum got called in a few times because I kept doing it in assembly!)

I have scars from surgeries and interestingly they're still very raised a long time on and they're brown

My scars that I do have seem to fade to a light brown colour

Mild anaemia could affect wound healing and you need iron to make collagen.

Bio oil won't do anything, silicone gel is the only thing proven in trials to be effective on scar reduction. Something like Dermatix.

Depends on type of injury. Caused by flat, sharp edges, heal quickly, don't bleed much. If wider, like a scratch from a nail, or a rough edge, can take longer to heal, bleed more and are more painful (a paper cut is considered like this, that's why they hurt so much!). Slow healing and increased scarring can have a lot to do with general health. Having a child with learning difficulties, I suspect tired and run down! How is the rest of your immune system, do you get lots of minor illnesses? We can't care for others if we don't care for ourselves. Maybe some vitamin supplements might help, and general self care.

Agree. This is what I was going to say. NHS website confirms.

You can get unbranded silicone scar gel from Superdrug. Stop wasting your money on bio oil.

You could try hydrocolloid dressings to aid healing and prevent scarring on your face.

www.superdrug.com/Health/First-Aid/Plasters/Elastoplast-Scar-Reducer,-21-Plasters/p/806193?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI1pf4uqS09wIVToFQBh3OwAdFEAQYASABEgLhq_D_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

I'd take a multi vitamin, eat more protien and stop smoking if you do as they look like your having a hard time healing them properly

@lifewithsomeonespecial

Has your son had a sensory needs assessment?

Some parents have found this document useful:
www.falkirk.gov.uk/services/social-care/disabilities/docs/young-people/Making%20Sense%20of%20Sensory%20Behaviour.pdf?v=201507131117

Yes,this.

Hi OP, looks like you could use an iron supplement but get a proper GPs's consultation and blood test. You may find it helpful.

Sorry if I’ve misunderstood but is DS biting you? If so I’d be super careful about wearing long thick sleeves and getting professional help with this.

scars can indeed be from fairly superficial wound. My friend’s dog jumped up and scratched my leg two years ago and I have a scar from that alongside numerous surgical scars.

I honestly think you need to look at a vitamin C supplement because you scar too easily.

What is your son actually doing, is it nails or bites?

Also don't pick. Picking leaves scars...