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Full time or part time and benefits?

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DancingintheDark17 · 24/04/2022 05:27

I'm currently a working full time single mum, thinking about positively of changing to part time.

I love my work, decent salary, good hours = no paid child care needed, lots of paper work done at home when DS in bed. Being committed 5 days is really taking its toll on priorities, my son and work are always sorted, which leaves me running around with every spare minute trying to clean. Having the extra days at home would creat a perfect balance, but knowing the drop in wages it was only ever a dream.

However my friend recently explained how she's retuning part time after maternity leave, as she will be entitled to x, y, z and when added together is nearly a full time wage.

If I made the change it would permanent, and to move back I would need to reapply.

Any advice? Experience?

OP posts:
SwanBuster · 24/04/2022 21:14

Giraffesandbottom · 24/04/2022 20:50

@SwanBuster

i agree with you in that I think you either have loopholes at both ends and people don’t attack either for using, or neither get to do it. But then I don’t subscribe to the “poor = virtuous and good/ rich = immoral and mean” Robin Hood trope so popular on MN!

Neither do I, but it depends on how you got rich.

the richest person - Musk - on earth more or less deserves his wealth, imho. That the numerical value of it is just fantasy based on how the stock market works makes it rather nonsensical. But he’s genuinely been a serial entrepreneur, who has maximised his ops and a few slightly iffy deals aside, he’s done it fairly cleanly. I don’t think he’s been a rentier parasite.

however, someone who exploits the way the way the banking system works in terms of how money is created and uses that to hoover up properties is not to be admired in my book. When they then look down on folk saying ‘work harder blah blah blah’ when they are simply a product of their time of birth and done nothing more than using leverage in a crude manner to acquire one asset class, I think they should be the real tax target. Alongside big businesses who pay peanuts and let the state through things like UC top up employee wages to enrich shareholders.

I’m no Saint, I hold shares in plenty of companies like that in index funds. But yeah, we largely agree.

SwanBuster · 24/04/2022 21:15

Babyroobs · 24/04/2022 21:11

Op I haven't read the whole thread but do know a bit about Universal credit. Please do not compare yourself to your friends situation because the amount of UC each person receives is dependent on their individual situation. Also do not compare to people on tax credits as Uc is an entirely different benefit.

This has all been covered in the thread indeed.

cuppygup · 24/04/2022 21:22

@SwanBuster agree with you

DancingintheDark17 · 24/04/2022 22:13

@Babyroobs of the top of my head I am unable to recall theyre exact name, but there's quite a few, all aimed at low income families. They cover things like food over holidays ( but can still access an establishment that will provide the meal), or if child isn't at school you get a grant to for that and food payments, clothing grants, winter heating assistance, a Scottish one for children under 6.. the list goes on tbh.. like I said some of these are weekly, others at set times of the year, however they are all additional benefits/ support

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DancingintheDark17 · 24/04/2022 22:16

Babyroobs · 24/04/2022 21:11

Op I haven't read the whole thread but do know a bit about Universal credit. Please do not compare yourself to your friends situation because the amount of UC each person receives is dependent on their individual situation. Also do not compare to people on tax credits as Uc is an entirely different benefit.

It wasn't comparing as such it was more a realisation that the money she receives would likely be enough to cover the bills/ payments that I need covered.
I'm fully aware there are restrictions etc, thats is why I would do the correct amount of hours to qualify, as it wouldn't be worth my while droopy any hours unless I got the extra help

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Babyroobs · 24/04/2022 22:19

DancingintheDark17 · 24/04/2022 22:13

@Babyroobs of the top of my head I am unable to recall theyre exact name, but there's quite a few, all aimed at low income families. They cover things like food over holidays ( but can still access an establishment that will provide the meal), or if child isn't at school you get a grant to for that and food payments, clothing grants, winter heating assistance, a Scottish one for children under 6.. the list goes on tbh.. like I said some of these are weekly, others at set times of the year, however they are all additional benefits/ support

Not everyone on Uc will get these though. You would have to be on a very low income to access these. I think maybe you are referring to free school meals and the pupil premium and uniform grants but a household would need less than around 7k to qualify for these I think? Even to get free prescriptions and dental care etc on UC there has to be earnings of less than £935 a month with kids.

DancingintheDark17 · 24/04/2022 22:27

@Babyroobs well I wasn't expecting it to be a free for all to get, and there are restrictions, however these are all available funds or grants. My friends did state exactly what one she would qualify for, simply that the money would help her In one way or another

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Waxonwaxoff0 · 25/04/2022 06:01

DixonD · 24/04/2022 20:13

A family member works part time and is on UC with children (secondary age). She is being pushed into working full time by the job centre.

UC is not a permanent solution. You can’t work part time forever and claim benefits.

And if you can work full time, then why on earth would you want to claim benefits? You may not even get them immediately if you have been seen to deliberately reduce your earnings.

OP hasn't got a secondary school age child though, she has a preschooler.

No one is under the impression that you can stay on UC forever. My DS is nearly 9, I'm fully aware that I will need to start looking at full time when he's in secondary school. I'm fine with that, because by then he'll be old enough to not need to go to childcare and he can walk to and from school himself. The reason I'm part time now is due to lack of childcare.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 25/04/2022 06:03

Giraffesandbottom · 24/04/2022 20:37

@Waxonwaxoff0

but the arguments presented on this thread like “she has paid her fair share of tax” and “it’s not her fault the govt let her” also apply to Rishi’s wife. I think the principle is exactly the same.

That's not my argument anywhere on this thread.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 25/04/2022 06:06

DancingintheDark17 · 24/04/2022 22:13

@Babyroobs of the top of my head I am unable to recall theyre exact name, but there's quite a few, all aimed at low income families. They cover things like food over holidays ( but can still access an establishment that will provide the meal), or if child isn't at school you get a grant to for that and food payments, clothing grants, winter heating assistance, a Scottish one for children under 6.. the list goes on tbh.. like I said some of these are weekly, others at set times of the year, however they are all additional benefits/ support

I don't get any of that for DS and I'm on minimum wage and benefits. Those things are for very very low income families, usually those with parents who don't/can't work at all.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 25/04/2022 06:08

Babyroobs · 24/04/2022 22:19

Not everyone on Uc will get these though. You would have to be on a very low income to access these. I think maybe you are referring to free school meals and the pupil premium and uniform grants but a household would need less than around 7k to qualify for these I think? Even to get free prescriptions and dental care etc on UC there has to be earnings of less than £935 a month with kids.

I earn more than that and I get free prescriptions and dental care, I'm on the old tax credits though so maybe it's different.

liveforsummer · 25/04/2022 15:53

@Waxonwaxoff0 same. I earn just over £900 pm and don't get any of those extra benefits. They only thing I get is discount on council tax for single occupancy - none of the grants, child payments, uniform grants, holiday funds etc. you need to be on full benefits for that. I'd actually be better off not working when you take all that in to account and then add on work costs. It's no fun surviving of top up benefits such as in wok UC or tax credits. I imagine it would be a huge struggle to go from over 30k down to such a low income

liveforsummer · 25/04/2022 15:53

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Viviennemary · 25/04/2022 18:04

People can play the system to suit their circumstances. Whether its working part-time to get more benefits or being a non dom to avoid tax. The principle is the same IMHO.

Norush4 · 29/04/2022 06:08

Viviennemary · 25/04/2022 18:04

People can play the system to suit their circumstances. Whether its working part-time to get more benefits or being a non dom to avoid tax. The principle is the same IMHO.

Silly comment. Some parents are part time because we need to pick our child up from school, some of us have spent the maximum limit that UC will cover in childcare you do realise its capped? There's a huge difference between working what is viable and logical than avoiding paying tax.

You sound bitter

Waxonwaxoff0 · 29/04/2022 07:44

Viviennemary · 25/04/2022 18:04

People can play the system to suit their circumstances. Whether its working part-time to get more benefits or being a non dom to avoid tax. The principle is the same IMHO.

Except it's not "playing the system." I work the hours that I'm required to, to claim working tax credits. I don't HAVE to work full time as a single parent of an under 12.

"Playing the system" is where you do something to falsely claim benefits, for example lying about being single when you have a live in partner. I'm not "playing the system" by legally claiming what the state says I'm entitled to. I don't lie to HMRC.

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