Dumped my 15 years older than me 48 year old boyfriend a week ago. After months of dealing with his depression and emotional abuse and being kicked out his home in the night I realised I was sick of it.
Last week after the last time I got kicked out he was abit off for a few days but talking to me a teeny bit. He went half back to normal but he seemed off. I asked him why he was only half being nice and he raised his voice and said he felt uncomfortable with me but we needed to talk the following day. I asked him if we could have a calm chat on the phone so we didn't leave things bad for another 24 hours. He got really angry and I told him id had enough and it was over.
He blocked me 2 days later. He owes me money and has some very sentimental things at mine. I've been trying to communicate through his cousin to return things and get money. He's telling his cousin he can't stand me anymore and saying I did this and that. No responsibility for himself.
Anyway I can't get his things to him as he won't communicate. He works alot. I can't leave it in his garden (passports, Jewellerry, photos of his dead mum etc and private paperwork. I don't drive and it's too heavy. His cousin asked him to contact me for the above and he just said ok mate to his cousin.. absolutely no response from him still.
What is making him do this? I don't understand why he won't tell me what he wants? I was storing it for him until he moves house but it's not going to affect him moving it's just a couple of bags of sentimental stuff.