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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to not want to pick up/drop off colleagues?

46 replies

BrumBrumBeepBeep · 23/04/2022 13:09

Hello

I work as a community carer and I am a driver. When calls require 2 carers sometimes I am paired with a colleague who can’t drive. It seems to simply be ‘expected’ that they will be collected and dropped off at home.

For instance today, I am collecting a person who lives the opposite way from me. I then have to go back past my house to our first client then the same afterwards to drop the person back at home.

I don’t get paid for the extra fuel needed, and whilst it may not be much in one single day, it adds up when you do it regularly. Plus I haven’t been paid since Feb as I am new to this company.

So, quite simply, AIBU to not want to play unpaid chauffeur?

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rubydoobydoo · 23/04/2022 14:24

I used to work as a domestic cleaner before I learned to drive, and was paired with a driver - I'd walk to meet her somewhere convenient for her, and a percentage of my wages went towards her petrol costs.

GeorgesMarvelousCalpol · 23/04/2022 14:26

I agree that, unless it's part of your contract, you say "I'll be leaving my house at 8am, if you want a lift be here before then. Otherwise I'll see you at work location". Definitely do not go out of your way, unless getting paid for it.

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 23/04/2022 14:28

comealongponds · 23/04/2022 14:22

YANBU and I say that as someone who can’t drive. I deliberately live and work in places that are accessible on public transport.

Why can’t she at least get herself to and from your house to save you doing the extra journey?

This. I don’t drive so I’ve always lived in areas where I don’t need to. Getting to & from places is up to me, not up to my colleagues.

TulipCat · 23/04/2022 14:31

If people are required to drive in your role then they should hire people who drive!

AlisonDonut · 23/04/2022 14:33

I would have said 'meet you there/outside 5 mins before the appt'.

idontknowdoi · 23/04/2022 14:33

Usually they purely do clients needing 2 carers. If they were to do clients needing single calls, they’d have to walk but all the calls would have to be local to their home address, which sometimes means they may only get 3 calls per round equalling 1.5hrs of work.*

So the non drivers either get lifted and laid, or work less??

Did you get this job on the basis that you can drive.

I'd be tempted to say my car is off the road for the foreseeable and let them accommodate me in that manner!

tcjotm · 23/04/2022 14:37

EmpressaurusWitchDoesntBurn · 23/04/2022 14:28

This. I don’t drive so I’ve always lived in areas where I don’t need to. Getting to & from places is up to me, not up to my colleagues.

Exactly and think about it from the perspective of location based jobs. My employer doesn’t come and collect me from my house, I have to get there myself. On that basis, the colleague should meet you at the first home and then you give them lifts to subsequent locations and then they make their way home from the last one themselves. Even saying you’ll collect them on the way at the location convenient to you is more than most employees get (I do understand it’s trickier if the locations are always different, but a smart phone makes it a lot easier and presumably they know in advance the locations). Otherwise, you’re tied to driving back towards home when you might have plans to go elsewhere after work.

LilacPoppy · 23/04/2022 14:42

Unfortunately that’s just how mobile care work is. I assume you are new to it?

Tanith · 23/04/2022 14:45

When do you expect your pay from February? I think I would be sorting this out as a priority.

thebeespyjamas · 23/04/2022 14:47

I did this job for five years without driving. I would work from 8am to 11pm most days. I had a bus pass from my own expense and I was the fittest I have been in my entire life from all the walking.

No, I wouldn't expect a lift but if it was the same direction then I would be grateful for the lift.

You aren't being unreasonable. I never thought about the expense. I've never driven you see. The expense is a fair point, they pay is so low. So low I couldn't continue in the work even though I would have been happy to do it forever.

It's the most important job in the world and it should be highly paid.

Snowpatrolling · 23/04/2022 14:48

I am a supervisor for a care company,
mid this happenes in my job (rare as we only employ drivers)
but say if someone’s car broke down, I make sure that the driver claims the extra mileage. Never would we expect someone to do that for free.

thebeespyjamas · 23/04/2022 14:48

thebeespyjamas · 23/04/2022 14:47

I did this job for five years without driving. I would work from 8am to 11pm most days. I had a bus pass from my own expense and I was the fittest I have been in my entire life from all the walking.

No, I wouldn't expect a lift but if it was the same direction then I would be grateful for the lift.

You aren't being unreasonable. I never thought about the expense. I've never driven you see. The expense is a fair point, they pay is so low. So low I couldn't continue in the work even though I would have been happy to do it forever.

It's the most important job in the world and it should be highly paid.

A lift to the nearest bus stop is always helpful though. Say to them 'Can I drop you anywhere along the way?' and if there was a relevant bus stop on your way home for them then drop them there?

Berthatydfil · 23/04/2022 14:50

so you and your

Berthatydfil · 23/04/2022 14:52

So you and your other driving colleagues subsidise the non drivers in time and money?
thats so unfair, cars aren’t cheap to run and that’s before petrol went through the roof - what would happen if you all gave up your cars ?

Indicatrice · 23/04/2022 14:54

BrumBrumBeepBeep · 23/04/2022 13:51

Thanks all. I’m going to say meet at a mutual location, ie, the end of my road and go from there! It’s a 20/25 min walk for this person though so I wonder how that’ll be received!

Or her parents could drive her over I guess….

Let us know how it goes / what her response is.

YANBU.

D0lphine · 23/04/2022 15:01

I walk 25 ish mins to work. No biggie, you just need a waterproof and a brolly.

D0lphine · 23/04/2022 15:03

Agree a lift to a bus stop on the way home would be a good compromise.

Murdoch1949 · 23/04/2022 19:58

You either get paid for the time to collect/return other carer, plus mileage expenses, or stop doing it. You're being taken advantage of.

BrumBrumBeepBeep · 23/04/2022 22:16

TulipCat · 23/04/2022 14:31

If people are required to drive in your role then they should hire people who drive!

That pretty much sums it all up really!!

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BrumBrumBeepBeep · 23/04/2022 22:17

LilacPoppy · 23/04/2022 14:42

Unfortunately that’s just how mobile care work is. I assume you are new to it?

It isn’t how my previous company operates and you also assume incorrectly.

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BrumBrumBeepBeep · 23/04/2022 22:18

Tanith · 23/04/2022 14:45

When do you expect your pay from February? I think I would be sorting this out as a priority.

At the end of next week apparently.

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