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10 replies

Filliente · 18/04/2022 17:02

Ok so my partner has '(his name) follows' and then women's clothes or make up sites. When I asked him about it he got really angry, I mean really angry.
Our sex life has been crap for ages too but he's otherwise affectionate. Relationship is good but this discovery has really upset me.
He refuses point blank to discuss. What the actual fuck is going on??

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Filliente · 18/04/2022 17:03

I meant Facebook FB history not DB

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WhackingPhoenix · 18/04/2022 17:04

I don’t understand what you mean?

Gowithme · 18/04/2022 17:05

He likes dressing up in women's clothes and make up as a fetish or wants to be a trans woman I guess - but is too ashamed to be open about it. There'd be no reason to get so angry otherwise surely.

Lime37 · 18/04/2022 17:05

Sounds like he could be trans

Forgotthespuds · 18/04/2022 17:09

He's looking at a new career as a stylist?. The only person who can answer your question is him. What made you suspicious in the 1st place to go looking at his FB history. I gotta be honest I don't have anything to hide but I'd be pretty pissed if my husband checked out my browser history & questioned me about it.

itrytomakemyway · 18/04/2022 17:12

Or he has maybe bought things from those sites as gifts for someone - OW if he is getting angry about it maybe?

Olivia88 · 18/04/2022 17:16

If he follows make up pages or womens clothes sites specifically, he's probably added them on purpose and is interested in them, and he didn't realise Facebook also recommends these to his friends.

If he'd accidentally 'liked' these pages, or if he'd 'liked' these pages while shopping for presents for you - I doubt he would have reacted angrily. He's probably into make up and womens clothes, or he's exploring the fact he might be into them.
He might be interested in just wearing them casually to feel nice, or wearing them in a sexual way, or because he's questioning his gender.
It might not be massively serious, maybe just gently ask him some open ended questions around it to find out

Willdoitlater · 18/04/2022 17:48

He's interested in women's clothes and makeup either for himself, or for someone else, and I doubt he would have got really angry if 'someone else' was his mum.

SeedyBloomer · 18/04/2022 18:05

If he’s following the sites and not just browsing once or twice then it’s probably safe to say he has a firm ongoing interest in women’s clothes / make up. His angry reaction sounds defensive, as if he’s embarrassed. Are there any other signs that he’s got an interest in dressing as a female?

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