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Doors unlocked at night?!

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LockedOrUnlocked · 18/04/2022 10:34

I’ve lived rurally in the countryside. I know people who live in farms. We all lock the doors at night. During the day probably less so much, but I don’t know anyone who leaves the doors unlocked at night. Just to clarify, I lived in a nice area with very little crime. But we still locked the doors. Because a crime can happen at any point, and to be honest rural means darkness and isolation and usually a delay in police presence whilst they travel there.

I’m not stupid, I know that if someone wants to commit a crime like robbery or burglary they will unlikely be stopped by a locked door and will probably smash a window. But there’s a chance the locked door will act as a deterrent.

So why would you not just lock it? Has anyone else noticed that it seems to be almost a boast on here if you leave the doors unlocked at night? Even if you have something against doing it for whatever reason, in the slim chance that it could help prevent a burglary or someone entering your house why would you not just do it? It takes 10 seconds to lock a door! Especially if you have children or pets, why would you not do absolutely everything you can do to keep them safe and lock the doors at night? Even if it’s just to stop them going on an adventure and ending up outside during the night, because we’ve all been kids once and we know how impulsive and daft they can be so it’s not unheard of! So why not do absolutely everything to protect them and everyone else inside?!

Does anyone else think there’s a trend on here that it’s boast worthy not to lock the doors at night?! Is it because it makes people feel better that they live in an area they deem nicer and less likely to have a crime?! Or is there a reason for it that I have no idea about?!Confused

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JesusMaryAndJosephAndTheWeeDon · 06/12/2022 12:22

Burglars know that the best haul doesn't come from rough areas but nice ones.

Burglars don't like to shit on their own doorstep (or more importantly their dealer's)

Burglars like an easy target they will look for unsecured properties first.

Burglars like to avoid being caught. Opening an unlocked door is silent compared to breaking a window or door so doesn't wake/alert residents or neighbours.

Burglars don't want the police turning up while the burglary is in progress, they want to be in and out quickly before they are detected. They also want to be in an area where the police response will be slower (eh rural areas).

Insurance companies generally require you to secure your home and may decline cover if doors aren't locked.

I don't understand why anyone wouldn't lock their doors.

Fragrantandfoolish · 06/12/2022 12:33

I think there is a generational element to this, I always lock my doors and live semi rurally. A neighbour who is in his eighties never locks his doors. Never has. Where I am it’s much older people who have lived in the same place a long time who often don’t see the need to lock their doors.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 06/12/2022 12:40

Semi-rurally in mostly naice area and my doors are secured day and night.

Although it is more about rape and sexual assault for me.

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