Am I wrong?

[Toadstool0791]

Would you feel miffed if you had found a lovely wee hotel to go to & mentioned it to a friend that it would be something nice for you both to do & she said yes would love to go but then she tells you that she had booked to go with someone else ( she had never heard of the place until i mentioned it)?

Yeah I think I would be hurt

Who is the someone else?

If it was another friend in the same friend group I’d be hurt.

But if it was her mother, sister, husband, child etc. I wouldn’t be bothered & id find someone else to go with.

Yep, I'd feel hurt. People will say she can do whatever she wants, but it doesn't stop it feeling like a snub...and to pinch your suggestion too. Not very nice.
Find another little gem and go with someone nicer x

Yes I would be upset. I've had it happen to me. To find something you want to explore and experience but they share that pleasure with someone else. I wouldn't share my thoughts or ideas with them again as they may take and never acknowledge it. I'm sorry OP its one of those petty things that can hurt. Go somewhere bigger / better with someone who you'll enjoy the adventure with you x

hi, thanks for response. it was just another friend of hers - not a relative etc. she had text me asking for the name of the hotel saying she had been telling this friend about it & then 3wks later told me she was going with her.

Yup I agree @Toadstool0791 - and if she was going to do it, the decent thing would to be discrete about it and not tell you she'd gone with another friend!

She sounds a bit weird and one to swerve tbh.

Yeah I'd be miffed about that.

I wouldn't fall out with her, but start distancing myself from her.

@Toadstool0791

hi, thanks for response. it was just another friend of hers - not a relative etc. she had text me asking for the name of the hotel saying she had been telling this friend about it & then 3wks later told me she was going with her.

Omg that's well shitty.