Posting for traffic really. Been in my relationship 22 years and have 2 kids 14&10.
I don’t love him anymore, I don’t even like him. He’s a man child who, as he’s got older, has turned into a victor meldrew man child. We haven’t had sex in years. We have just had a weeks holiday and spending all that time in his company has made me realise that in day to day life, we can lead seperate lives and that suits me.
I have stayed because I didn’t want to be a part time mum & be away from my kids for potentially half the week.
But I need an exit plan now somehow as I can’t go on living with someone i can’t stand. It’s not good for the kids as they just see misery and I am honestly happier when we are apart.
But I can’t afford it at the moment so how do I begin an exit plan? How did you do it and end your relationship? I am 50 next year and I think I’d like a new start.
Anyone got any advice?