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To think it’s not normal to send an Easter card?

141 replies

Alarmfiasco · 16/04/2022 11:45

Every year we get one from MIL but I have never sent one back. Prior to meeting DH I didn’t realise Easter cards even existed. MIL is very religious. She is not at all close to DH and rarely contacts us/ shows very little interest in us throughout the rest of the year, so I find it a bit hypocritical. So are Easter cards a thing?

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Alwayspaintyournails · 16/04/2022 11:46

They are a thing but far from necessary.

Russell19 · 16/04/2022 11:47

My godmother always send me one (religious nod) and I send to Grandparents from my little boy but that's it.

Chely · 16/04/2022 11:47

Yes they are for some.
The kids make them every year when young, usually stops by the end or primary school though.

Mamamia7962 · 16/04/2022 11:48

For some people they are yes. I don't send Easter cards but I know people who do.

Merryoldgoat · 16/04/2022 11:49

Easter is the most important celebration in the Christian calendar so I can understand people sending them widely if they are devout Christians.

Babadook76 · 16/04/2022 11:50

Well you’ve got one, so they’re obviously a thing. I don’t send them but my mum always sends one to the grandkids and they make them for their friends

Alarmfiasco · 16/04/2022 11:51

This is news for me, I thought it was and Americanism and another way for shops to make money. Have they always been a thing?

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wishitwasaduvetday · 16/04/2022 11:51

We always receive one from FIL, we've never sent any. Never thought much of it other than it's always nice to receive any card!

JellyBabiesSaveLives · 16/04/2022 11:54

For cultural/religious reasons. We went to stay with MiL when I was newly engaged to dh, at Easter. She had Easter cards and presents (not eggs/chocolate) for us. It hadn’t occurred to dh that we should bring anything even though that’s what his family do every year.

I nearly got into sending her an Easter card every year but thankfully I remembered in time that men can buy cards too, and let it be dh’s job. So she didn’t get Easter cards.

Alwayspaintyournails · 16/04/2022 11:54

We have received Easter cards from the 80’s (I was born then so perhaps earlier).

LadyMacbethWasMisunderstood · 16/04/2022 12:00

I have always sent and received Easter cards. Not as many as Christmas cards. But a few. I am in my 50s. It’s not new.

LadyMacbethWasMisunderstood · 16/04/2022 12:02

Somewhere I have some Easter cards sent to me by my grandparents when I was tiny. They were lovely. Really beautiful pictures.

LindaEllen · 16/04/2022 12:03

We used to do them within the family when I lived at home but since I moved out I've stopped, and the family seem to have stopped too.

They're just not needed - particularly when I have no Christian beliefs whatsoever!

TruJay · 16/04/2022 12:08

DH family are very religious, we get a card for his elderly relatives as it is an important celebration for them.
I also get one for my mum as Easter was a big occasion for her growing up.

Definitely not a widespread norm though I would say.

Rewis · 16/04/2022 12:09

I'd say it's not not a thing. Meaning, it's not as much of a thing as Christmas cards. But not exactly uncommon or weird to send one.

UnsuitableHat · 16/04/2022 12:11

I used to send them to a couple of elderly relatives, who’ve now died, as a way of keeping in touch and marking the season. Don’t think they’re much of a thing generally.

ManateeFair · 16/04/2022 12:13

One friend of mine always sends Easter cards. She doesn’t expect to get one back but she just likes to send them because she comes from a religious family where Easter is a big deal.

Gazelda · 16/04/2022 12:14

DD used to make them to send to grandparents and a lovely neighbour who we know celebrates Easter as a religious festival.
She's 14 now, so doesn't make them but we still post a little card through neighbour's door.

Moochio · 16/04/2022 12:15

Yeah it's a thing for some famileis

AchillesPoirot · 16/04/2022 12:16

Common among my religious friends to give and receive Easter cards.

We used to get them when I was a child. And a new outfit for church.

Peoniesandpeaches · 16/04/2022 12:17

We send them to nieces and nephews as they all get so excited to receive snail mail and it’s really just another excuse to post something showing we care. It’s also a lot healthier than a chocolate egg I guess.

Marynotsocontrary · 16/04/2022 12:19

@UnsuitableHat

I used to send them to a couple of elderly relatives, who’ve now died, as a way of keeping in touch and marking the season. Don’t think they’re much of a thing generally.
I do this too. I send maybe 7 or 8; at Christmas I send out about 40 cards.
FrecklesMalone · 16/04/2022 12:20

No chance are they normal. I've never had one and most certainly never sent one.

100problems · 16/04/2022 12:21

They're perfectly normal. I, and clearly you, don't send them.

Do you think it's some kind of pass ag religious reminder? It's really not, it's just a card with a bunny/eggs,
usually yellow and sometimes with a cross.

Inoffensive greeting of the season.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 16/04/2022 12:24

I get then from Christian friends, and I normally send my parents one (if I can find a card with a photo of a pissed off looking cat in a bunny costume).

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